以下是引用makeup在2004-11-29 16:42:27的发言：
impossible. past belongs to past and will never come to the current life again.

以下是引用makeup在2004-11-29 17:28:47的发言：
do you really believe that there exits pure friendship between adult women and men? especially you and your ex?

以下是引用butterflytie在2004-11-29 16:39:24的发言：
一年前左右分的手，我提出来的，然后反反复复一年多才最终结束。他工作太忙，没有多少时间陪我，我后来越来越烦躁觉得他不能抽空多陪我。没有联系半年，我们最近才开始又联系起来。我和他说我的一些心烦的事，他都很耐心地听，给我出主意。 感觉很好，但是我知道我们不会在走到一起了。很奇怪，和ex以前我都是老死不相往来的。
你们呢，和ex都保持联系吗?

Does your ex feel the same way as you do?
Normally it's very hard to reach a common consent from both sides.
I used calling my ex once a month or two.
I treated him like a friend,
but he was still joking about the possibility to get back together once in a while.
Until this summer, he came to US for a business trip, met me and proposed.
I knew he started getting serious, so it's time to stop calling him....