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"legally separate" is almost same as divorce here---has to go to court, file for it, and settle all the matters. It is very different from the Chinese term "fenju".

我遇到一个分居四年的就因为财产和孩子的问题不能达成一致出来date的，也是高知。虽然可以理解，但确实很麻烦。

你怎么verify他们分居了，去他们家看过了还是有什么paper证明？我是觉得选择那么多，干嘛找没离婚的

---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP

legal separate, also need court sign the judgement. If you can search the case on the official local court website, and see there is a judgement event, it means he is legal separated. If not.......