以下是引用gabbie在2004-9-4 22:52:54的发言：
Darkmoon你还没有真正地悟“佛”；
等能不care别人这些说法的时候，就真的到了

以下是引用darkmoon在2004-9-4 22:41:35的发言：
是啊，女的爱管闲事还正常点儿，一个男人家也这样，他居然还跟我老公说，我该找什么样的工作好，万一找不到又该找什么样的。然后还替我们BUILD我们的未来，说我老公该挣多少，然后我该挣多少，然后我们应该怎么怎么样生活～～～他自己有老婆有两个孩子的，还替人家操心！ 佛祖啊～～～

以下是引用疏影暗香在2004-9-4 23:04:44的发言：

a~~~刚反应过来, DARKMOON JJ是那位做绣花工艺品的吧. 好能干啊, 那些东西我好喜欢. 不如JJ开个店吧, 别去做那些无聊的工作, 美国人应该有不少喜欢这些有点异国情调的工艺品的. 发了~~~[em00]

以下是引用疏影暗香在2004-9-4 23:06:32的发言：

俩孩子还不够他操心的, 服了. 不如你走曲线救国路线, 劝他太太再多生几个. 要不劝那男的多取几个LP, 哈, 够他操心了吧~~~~

以下是引用jami在2004-9-4 23:29:01的发言：
Don't need to care about him, soemtimes give him some unhappy color when he is talking about it ,maybe he should understand it.
Personally I would like someone to tell me what should do and what not, hehe, that's diffrent.
EEveryone like his own life.
I have a girlFriend, she would give me some suggestions if I talked with her about what I am thinking and what I may worry about,and I don't have to follow her idea every time, but it is really helpfule to me and give me some ideas of how to handling things.
So I really appreciate her friendship and idea.

Anyway, believe he is from good intention, and just a little out of his own business and he may think ur husband would like her suggestions.