寒假要回国了，也来发发牢骚~~~~~~~~

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威望5

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carcar

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2004-11-03 15:34:00

同意同意

以下是引用xiongranger在2004-11-3 15:10:53的发言：
要是我，就说开了，这些这些东西统统多少钱，请你在我会家时给我，人民币就行。
下次她就不敢了。然后，给哥哥的钱就是给哥哥，你想给多少，再另写张支票给你哥。

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carcar

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2004-11-03 15:36:00

以下是引用Joyy在2004-11-3 15:33:52的发言：
还没过门的嫂子呢，带一套护肤品就算尽到礼节了
别的什么DC/DV，让他们自己出钱

至于结婚礼物，那是另外一回事，不要参合在一起

同意..一定不要搀和在一起..

该是什么是什么..

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威望21

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yuanyuanlu

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2004-11-03 15:37:00

support this idea! Otherwise she thinks you are easy to take advantage of...

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eveliu

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2004-11-03 17:12:00

你跟她说，既然是带的要她给钱
化妆品送她做礼物好了

以下是引用uswhy在2004-11-3 12:56:12的发言：
寒假回去，问家里人有没有什么东西要带的，爸爸妈妈还有哥哥都没说什么，就是我那个未曾谋面的未来嫂子，向我要这个要哪个的。
让我给她带一个数码摄像机，sony的三百万像素一个刚出来的，我一看价格，1300多刀买不起。我现在又在犹豫到底是买一个500刀的还是800刀的一个，我去征求她的意见，人家当然说800刀的了，，BS自己太傻了。
昨天打电话来，又说要clarins的护肤品，想想算了，国内是贵。今天又说要美国的鹅绒被。
估计会给她买那个800刀的DV,然后回去和他们说这个就算是我送给你们以后结婚的结婚礼物吧。
回家太费钱了，吓得我都不敢回去了。
我快破产了~~~~~~~~~~~~
现在想想，可能是她也知道我曾经借给ex-bf1000美金的事，现在搞得我也什么都不能说

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roseprimrose

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2004-11-03 17:18:00

If I were you, I would only buy a gift set of skincare products from Clarins (something <=$100) for your future sister-in-law. Don't buy DV to her because she will not count it as the present for their future wedding. Then later on when they get married, I guess she will expect you to give them something as the wedding gift (such as a big fat check) - what are you going to do then? Tell her the DV is the gift? It would be very embarrassing. No way you will get away with it. So, no DV, just small decent gift and that is it. You can save your $500 - $800 for their wedding.

Btw, are you sure she will be your sister-in-law?

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justag

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2004-11-03 17:21:00

it's none of her business that you helped your ex-bf using your own money. buy her some skin-care set, and buy some electronics for your brother, and something better for your parents...

don't da3 zhong3 lian3 chong1 pang4 zi0

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2004-11-03 17:26:00

以下是引用justag在2004-11-3 17:21:58的发言：
it's none of her business that you helped your ex-bf using your own money. buy her some skin-care set, and buy some electronics for your brother, and something better for your parents...

don't da3 zhong3 lian3 chong1 pang4 zi0

Agree! I think your brother's gf asks too much. She has not been your sister-in-law yet. It is not proper to ask bf's sister so expensive gift. She is a little greedy.

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roseprimrose

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2004-11-03 17:33:00

a lesson from the story -- never ask someone who you are not familiar with what present he/she wants

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