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why are you so happy?
以下是引用germo在2004-11-15 19:50:26的发言：
以下是引用bluesimon在2004-11-15 19:44:42的发言：
i'm not sure if you have friends like this: you may not contact each other for a long time; you don't know where he/she is, how he/she has been, what he/she has been doing, etc. but some day when he/she finds you again, you'll put everything aside to help him/her, to accompany him/her. it's like not a single day has passed, because he/she resides deeply in your heart. and, you know he/she will do the same thing to you. just like the song: winter, spring, summer or fall, all you have to do is call... you've got a friend.
for most friends, i agree that if you don't contact each other very often, you'll gradually drift apart and become strangers.
tell us if ths friend is male or female in your case and how is your feeling now, like hunting or fishing?
[此贴子已经被作者于2004-11-15 19:53:58编辑过]
完了，那打住吧，肯定因为寂寞，男人很容易这样儿.
不过看样子你是打不住了
不过看样子你是打不住了
以下是引用bluesimon在2004-11-15 19:37:13的发言：
actually i think we're the kind of friends who are very very important to each other, so important that sometimes you get confused what's really going on between you two. that's why i said ai4 mei4. we're friends -- i won't tell other people he's my bf and he won't tell other people i'm his gf -- but at the same time we're definitely more than just friends. inside, i think we both (maybe just me) want to go one step further, but don't have the courage to take real action. what if that one step further fails? also, as i said before: distance, distance...
actually i think we're the kind of friends who are very very important to each other, so important that sometimes you get confused what's really going on between you two. that's why i said ai4 mei4. we're friends -- i won't tell other people he's my bf and he won't tell other people i'm his gf -- but at the same time we're definitely more than just friends. inside, i think we both (maybe just me) want to go one step further, but don't have the courage to take real action. what if that one step further fails? also, as i said before: distance, distance...
以下是引用layala在2004-11-15 19:30:17的发言：
不太明白美眉在说什么？初恋啊？你得钓着他，怎么能让他钓你胃口呢？
以下是引用huasheng在2004-11-15 19:53:12的发言：
why are you so happy?
why are you so happy?
以下是引用germo在2004-11-15 19:50:26的发言：
以下是引用bluesimon在2004-11-15 19:44:42的发言：
i'm not sure if you have friends like this: you may not contact each other for a long time; you don't know where he/she is, how he/she has been, what he/she has been doing, etc. but some day when he/she finds you again, you'll put everything aside to help him/her, to accompany him/her. it's like not a single day has passed, because he/she resides deeply in your heart. and, you know he/she will do the same thing to you. just like the song: winter, spring, summer or fall, all you have to do is call... you've got a friend.
for most friends, i agree that if you don't contact each other very often, you'll gradually drift apart and become strangers.
tell us if ths friend is male or female in your case and how is your feeling now, like hunting or fishing?
[此贴子已经被作者于2004-11-15 19:53:58编辑过]
刚吃完饭，碗也洗好了， ＧＧ上课去了，我现在在灌水．明天要交的作业也做完了，已经ＳＵＢＭＩＴ了， 期末考试还早， 先不去想， 老板这两天休假， 上班时间还可以放羊
以下是引用germo在2004-11-15 20:18:04的发言：
刚吃完饭，碗也洗好了， ＧＧ上课去了，我现在在灌水．明天要交的作业也做完了，已经ＳＵＢＭＩＴ了， 期末考试还早， 先不去想， 老板这两天休假， 上班时间还可以放羊
刚吃完饭，碗也洗好了， ＧＧ上课去了，我现在在灌水．明天要交的作业也做完了，已经ＳＵＢＭＩＴ了， 期末考试还早， 先不去想， 老板这两天休假， 上班时间还可以放羊
mm真幸福啊，羡慕ing
if both of you are still single and available, why not go one step ahead? I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more. There is trade-off. The question is which one you value more, a long-lasting friendship or a possible love with this guy.
Ask your own heart.
Ask your own heart.
以下是引用bearhouse在2004-11-15 20:25:15的发言：
if both of you are still single and available, why not go one step ahead? I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more. There is trade-off. The question is which one you value more, a long-lasting friendship or a possible love with this guy.
Ask your own heart.
if both of you are still single and available, why not go one step ahead? I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more. There is trade-off. The question is which one you value more, a long-lasting friendship or a possible love with this guy.
Ask your own heart.
这不是把mm往火坑里推吗？那男的显然在钓鱼嘛。
当然，偶有时候是想的比较险恶一点
"I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ this is exactly what i'm afraid of.
" Ask your own heart."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~i really don't know. otherwiese i wouldn't have come here and told you my story.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ this is exactly what i'm afraid of.
" Ask your own heart."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~i really don't know. otherwiese i wouldn't have come here and told you my story.
以下是引用bearhouse在2004-11-15 20:25:15的发言：
if both of you are still single and available, why not go one step ahead? I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more. There is trade-off. The question is which one you value more, a long-lasting friendship or a possible love with this guy.
Ask your own heart.
if both of you are still single and available, why not go one step ahead? I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more. There is trade-off. The question is which one you value more, a long-lasting friendship or a possible love with this guy.
Ask your own heart.
[此贴子已经被作者于2004-11-15 20:52:40编辑过]
maybe you are right. i don't know.
distance is a big problem. i'm not sure about anything.
distance is a big problem. i'm not sure about anything.
以下是引用layala在2004-11-15 20:51:01的发言：
以下是引用bearhouse在2004-11-15 20:25:15的发言：
if both of you are still single and available, why not go one step ahead? I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more. There is trade-off. The question is which one you value more, a long-lasting friendship or a possible love with this guy.
Ask your own heart.
这不是把mm往火坑里推吗？那男的显然在钓鱼嘛。
当然，偶有时候是想的比较险恶一点
这种暧昧的朋友，你即使现在不进一步，也是不能持久的。当你有了你的他，你和这个他的这种关系还是会改变的。
如果你自己都不知道的话，是没有其他人能帮你作决定的。
如果是我的话，我会问自己有没有足够爱的力气去追求并维持这场long-distance的感情，有没有足够的精力去面对这个难以琢磨的人（会太辛苦吗？）。我会问自己如果被伤害的话，是否可以在以后的日子依旧相信爱，相信幸福。如果有一个答案是否定的话，那我会选择放弃更进一步的可能。是真正的放弃，从心里彻底的放弃。
如果你自己都不知道的话，是没有其他人能帮你作决定的。
如果是我的话，我会问自己有没有足够爱的力气去追求并维持这场long-distance的感情，有没有足够的精力去面对这个难以琢磨的人（会太辛苦吗？）。我会问自己如果被伤害的话，是否可以在以后的日子依旧相信爱，相信幸福。如果有一个答案是否定的话，那我会选择放弃更进一步的可能。是真正的放弃，从心里彻底的放弃。
以下是引用bluesimon在2004-11-15 20:51:23的发言：
"I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ this is exactly what i'm afraid of.
" Ask your own heart."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~i really don't know. otherwiese i wouldn't have come here and told you my story.
"I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ this is exactly what i'm afraid of.
" Ask your own heart."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~i really don't know. otherwiese i wouldn't have come here and told you my story.
以下是引用bearhouse在2004-11-15 20:25:15的发言：
if both of you are still single and available, why not go one step ahead? I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more. There is trade-off. The question is which one you value more, a long-lasting friendship or a possible love with this guy.
Ask your own heart.
[此贴子已经被作者于2004-11-15 20:52:40编辑过]
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If you really know him, you should understand what he is thinking now.
Distance is definitely a big problem. I mean, in this situation, I don't think he can do much
except saying loving you once in a while. What else can he do? You guys were not together,
so even talking everyday will be a little too much...
Distance is definitely a big problem. I mean, in this situation, I don't think he can do much
except saying loving you once in a while. What else can he do? You guys were not together,
so even talking everyday will be a little too much...
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