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我想到一个方法，不知可行不可行。你跟你BF开口借个1000，2000的，说你要办绿卡，要8000刀，你自己钱不太够，只好跟他借一点。这个是个暗示，看他怎么说了，如果他说干脆结婚了，不就水到渠成了吗。如果他没提结婚，你就自己付了这个钱吧。
以下是引用bermangirl在2004-11-17 15:53:32的发言：
以下是引用HappyFeFe在2004-11-17 15:23:49的发言：
I would pay by myself---since you are working, it's llike one month salary,right?---be independent all the way through the marriage!
just in case something happened later between you two, no excuses for him or his family...
一个月的工资？ ![]()
真的高估了太多了。
别难过 别难过，估计这儿没几个这么高的，那可是税后8千呀
就是税前12k to 15k, it will be 150k to 180k/year
别难过 别难过，估计这儿没几个这么高的，那可是税后8千呀
就是税前12k to 15k, it will be 150k to 180k/year
talk to your bf about the cost of $8000, see how he reacts to it.
but even if you two get married and you are eligible for applying for a green card through a different channel, you still get to pay attorney fees. it wont be very cheap either.
but even if you two get married and you are eligible for applying for a green card through a different channel, you still get to pay attorney fees. it wont be very cheap either.
[此贴子已经被作者于2004-11-17 15:59:16编辑过]
$8000 is not a small amount. Why the company cannot pay for you? or even half?
Also the attorney fee is not usually paid off at once. In your case, you will have three steps in GC application.
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So can you ask the attorny if the fee can be divided to three payments? You will pay after each step is approved or filed.
Also the attorney fee is not usually paid off at once. In your case, you will have three steps in GC application.
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So can you ask the attorny if the fee can be divided to three payments? You will pay after each step is approved or filed.
[此贴子已经被作者于2004-11-17 16:16:07编辑过]
以下是引用theOnion在2004-11-17 15:57:50的发言：
talk to your bf about the cost of $8000, see how he reacts to it.
but even if you two get married and you are eligible for applying for a green card through a different channel, you still get to pay attorney fees. it wont be very cheap either.
talk to your bf about the cost of $8000, see how he reacts to it.
but even if you two get married and you are eligible for applying for a green card through a different channel, you still get to pay attorney fees. it wont be very cheap either.
[此贴子已经被作者于2004-11-17 15:59:16编辑过]
真的，不过朋友都说不用什么律师费，只是手续费
除非你自己file, otherwise u have to pay the lawyer.
一般律师收费都是分阶段的，你再去问问，真的是要一次付清的吗
you think it's a good timing for marriage now?
if you don't have any romantic idea of the proposing things, this might be the best chance for you two bring up this topic.
since you've already be so sure you are gonna marry sooner or later, it's better to save the 8000 for future needs, like you said, house, kids.
the thing is depending on how much confidence you have in your relationshop.
if you don't have any romantic idea of the proposing things, this might be the best chance for you two bring up this topic.
since you've already be so sure you are gonna marry sooner or later, it's better to save the 8000 for future needs, like you said, house, kids.
the thing is depending on how much confidence you have in your relationshop.
以下是引用bermangirl在2004-11-17 15:33:22的发言：
to be honest, 8000 is not a small amount for me. I have to loan from my parents at this point. cannot afford it. of course the lawyer cannot take credit card. I just feel i have owed my parents too much. I know all of these are not good execuse for mentioning this to my bf. It is not the way how the marriage comes. To be honest, i believe it is just timing problem, we must get married sooner or later. If it is the case, I just wanna spend the money in some other way, which could be on our new house, our new car, for our kids.
to be honest, 8000 is not a small amount for me. I have to loan from my parents at this point. cannot afford it. of course the lawyer cannot take credit card. I just feel i have owed my parents too much. I know all of these are not good execuse for mentioning this to my bf. It is not the way how the marriage comes. To be honest, i believe it is just timing problem, we must get married sooner or later. If it is the case, I just wanna spend the money in some other way, which could be on our new house, our new car, for our kids.
[此贴子已经被作者于2004-11-17 15:33:50编辑过]
要我我就说，他是你最亲近的人吧？重要的事情两个人总归商量一下好。
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i'll pay the money.
if he doesn't propose, don't ask him
if he doesn't propose, don't ask him
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