每个人心里都已经有了答案。如果你依然深爱他，就暗示他你知道发生过，但下不为例。

我觉得还是看他现在对你怎么样吧，如果现在对你还行，他一定有什么原因才那么做的，而且如果以后不再做，有什么呢？！
我觉得如果一个男人和另外的女人有了亲密接触，他一定不会再喝原来的老婆也好，女朋友也好，反正对原来的就没兴趣了，而且如果他和新的是有感情的，那它更没有办法和原来的好了。
如果你们现在还在一起，过去的事情，对他来说没什么，那又何必影响你们的关系呢？

这种事情知道了，就已经受伤害了，知道得越多，心里越不舒服，是肯定的。只能说很不幸，以后不管分与合，都是一个伤疤。看以后怎么愈合了。

对一个有脑子的男人来说，老婆是最重要的，外面都只不过是逢场作戏，调剂一下乏味的生活。从没做过，不代表他不想做，只是没胆或者没人看得上他。做过的，也不代表以后一定会做，很有可能他会觉得其实一点都不好玩，再加上心里承受的罪恶感，使他以后再也不做。在你面前再怎么忏悔，也不能保证以后不犯。
所以看你自己的承受能力了，一次两次三次都能承受，到了你的极限你自然就会爆发了

完全同意这个说法。 mm们不妨问问自己的ld, 有哪个男的敢拍胸脯说，我不想做。9成9在撒谎。

agree. Men are like this. That is why I always told my husband that if he cares, never let me know if something like this happens.

Now it really depends on your feeling. If this thing happens a long time ago, and he now stays in the right course, he is forgivable. Give yourself some time to see if you can accept this. If not, get out of it the soonest you can. If yes, try to edit your life, as what Rayomond said at Robert's wedding, and try to forget those bad things.

excellent comments, yeah, Ray's words, edit, you need to edit your life, only remember the good parts.

这个太严重乐！！ 不太能原谅啊！
除非你非常非常的爱你老公！

cannot input Chinese now. So weird...

Anyway, just wanted to say maybe you should pay more attention to future. People made mistakes, and sometimes they were really bad. If you are an ok couple now, try to look forward for future and not to think about it too much. If you really have problems with getting over it, then maybe you can talk with him or even leave him. No matter what, talking about it will bring shadow to your life anyway. It may be really hard to trust him after all these, so it depends how much you care. It is really difficult for any woman in this situation and I do feel sorry for you...