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威望27

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bermangirl

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2004-07-19 16:22:00

以下是引用mkgirl在2004-7-19 13:33:02的发言：
But I think the person who means most to me totally forgets it.

Yeah, we are not together anyway, but is it really that you cannot expect anything after
breaking-up?

A little bit upset. He talked about my birthday a month ago, but when it comes, he forgets.
should I remind him? I don't expect anything special, maybe just a "happy birthday". Or I shouldn't care. If he doesn't remember, he doesn't.
He doesn't have the responsibility of remembering it.

No matter what, parents are the only ones who would never forget your birthday. Other people?
It depends.

[此贴子已经被作者于2004-7-19 14:24:36编辑过]

期望越少就越容易快乐
生日快乐
想一想因为来到huaren如故就多了很多人的祝福不是很开心

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bermangirl

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2004-07-19 16:26:00

以下是引用gabbie在2004-7-19 14:21:21的发言：
打个电话过去，开玩笑的口气：
今天我过生日，你都忘了，怎么罚你？我要生日礼物……

如果可以忍得住的话
就不要打电话给他
越纠缠，越痛苦
如果你真的可以在这么特别的一天
都不要和他纠缠的话
以后想起来都会为自己的坚强骄傲的
不过也不要太难为自己
自己的生日要为自己快乐
为爱你的父母有你这么乖巧的女儿快乐

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2004-07-19 16:32:00

Enjoy life and everything you have !

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mkgirl

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2004-07-19 16:37:00

以下是引用bermangirl在2004-7-19 16:26:47的发言：

以下是引用gabbie在2004-7-19 14:21:21的发言：
打个电话过去，开玩笑的口气：
今天我过生日，你都忘了，怎么罚你？我要生日礼物……

如果可以忍得住的话
就不要打电话给他
越纠缠，越痛苦
如果你真的可以在这么特别的一天
都不要和他纠缠的话
以后想起来都会为自己的坚强骄傲的
不过也不要太难为自己
自己的生日要为自己快乐
为爱你的父母有你这么乖巧的女儿快乐

Yeah. That is what I was struggling with. I mean, we broke up, which finished everything.
He may or may not like me now. If he remembers, I would be happy. If not, I cannot complain
actually. We are supposed to have different lives now. :( But still feels a little upset
anyway. I think I am too nice to myself on this issue. Should have the courage to say bye
to past and make a clean ending. I just cannot. :(

I don't expect any gift from him actually. That would be too sweet to be real. Anyway, I hope
I won't care next year this time.

Thanks a lot, guys. I do feel much happier because of your blessing. :)

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darkmoon

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2004-07-19 16:48:00

生日快乐。
今天不要亏待自己哦，给自己买个蛋糕或是生日礼物吧。别人忘了没关系，自己可得对自己好一点呀。

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gabbie

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2004-07-19 18:13:00

我我我……
我本来就是个老实人//grin

以下是引用sisikou在2004-7-19 14:24:41的发言：

以下是引用gabbie在2004-7-19 14:21:21的发言：
打个电话过去，开玩笑的口气：
今天我过生日，你都忘了，怎么罚你？我要生日礼物……

hehe, Gabbie 这时候就狡猾聪明起来了。对自己的弟弟就一个头两个大。

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marchjuly

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2004-07-19 18:20:00

mkgirl mm, forget about him and move on. Everything would be fine. It is difficult now but after you make it through you will know it was not a big deal.

以下是引用mkgirl在2004-7-19 16:37:40的发言：

Yeah. That is what I was struggling with. I mean, we broke up, which finished everything.
He may or may not like me now. If he remembers, I would be happy. If not, I cannot complain
actually. We are supposed to have different lives now. :( But still feels a little upset
anyway. I think I am too nice to myself on this issue. Should have the courage to say bye
to past and make a clean ending. I just cannot. :(

I don't expect any gift from him actually. That would be too sweet to be real. Anyway, I hope
I won't care next year this time.

Thanks a lot, guys. I do feel much happier because of your blessing. :)

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小兔呀

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2004-07-19 18:31:00

Happy Birthday! Have fun yourself!!!

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robinsnow

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2004-07-19 18:37:00

happy b-day!!!
don't blame him...you guys break up...it is good he is not showing up or gifts or anything...it is very good that he makes a quick decision and leaves nothing to ponder, to dissect, to illusion.
move on!