100% agree
青春和时间是多少工资都换不来的
如果找到了新的目标，没有必要再留恋这点小钱，更何况新的目标也可能带来新的收入
我反对为了工资和钱做不喜欢的工作，但多数时候我们想两个一手抓。。。





[em00] Good to know there are still people with the same opinions as mine.
Sometimes, I even envy people who have less desires, can really focus on what they can get,
no matter what it is, and work hard on that too.
Indeed my chinese co-worker, she is such a person.
The only thing that she is excited about is work. All she wants is to be fullfilled at work.
So she really concentrates on her job and is dedicated to it too.
Although she complains she puts much less attention to her baby boy than work once in a while,
I think she is satisfied at the fullfillment she has acheived at work.

[此贴子已经被作者于2004-10-28 15:14:55编辑过]

我觉得工作和学业只要是不讨厌就行了，这两件事本来就是很painful,硬要我们去喜欢也很难阿，最主要的还是把他们和我们自己的生活分开，不要影响到生活的心态就好了。
就像我，现在在读博士，天天作research,也说不上喜欢，但是我尽量不要让自己产生讨厌，抵触的情绪，正确地看待他，就把它当作是谋生的手段，而且要知道，其实做什么做久了，做深了，都会觉得没意思的。就向到这里来抱怨的人们，做什么的都有，关键不是在做什么，而且以什么样的心态去面对。自己要试着在枯燥的学习生活或是工作中寻找乐趣。也是给自己一个希望~~~~~~~~~

难啊

欧也是呀，找工作都说喜欢challenge云云，其时发现读了这么多年书，喜欢和胜任的还是不动脑子不费力的简单重复劳动，难一点的东西根本不想去学，好像也学不动了。都想不出什么工作自己会有兴趣。

我对自己的要求是，don't let school interfere with your education; don't let work interefere with your life.
工作学习自己不喜欢，只是生活的一个方面，可以慢慢改善，可是需要时间和机遇。如果生活的其他方面多一些寄托，工作学习带来的痛苦可能就没那么折磨人了。
以前我有时心情不好的时候，就喜欢上网逛街吃东西。现在渐渐觉得这些都是治标不治本，只起了吗啡的作用。现在心情不好时就尽量提醒自己多做点有意义的事，比如看本好书，看个好电影，或者去锻炼身体，一边锻炼一边听audio book，这样一天下来就觉得I didn't stop improving my mind... 觉得自己的生活没被那些烦心的事毁了，心里就会觉得很坦然，觉得很对得起自己。

记得以前李碧华说过：快乐美满的人生：七成饱，三分醉，十足收成；过上等生活，付中等劳力，享下等情欲。 呵呵，偶也厌学，偶就想能够学习工作都轻松一点，拿个中等的工资就好了。唉，没有上进心了

This is exactly what I am thinking now. I hate my job, but lasy to make any change (cause I don't know what else I could do). I even hate myself. I go to work every day just for money. I am really hopeless...

I even don't have a "目标" in my life. I am struggling hard every day, however, I don't know what I am struggling for. Furthermore, I am not sure that I will feel better if I have a new job. Anyway, good to know I am not the only one who has the painful time with job.

我的感受和你简直一模一样，每天走出办公楼，都得好好长舒一口气，又是一个行尸走肉般的一天过去了。。