真的，不过朋友都说不用什么律师费，只是手续费


You are right. I heard it's not expensive at all.

agree....

Maybe what he thinks is different from you if your bf never proposes..
maybe he thought you two need more time to get married???
just a guess....

我觉得还是自己出，要是因为这个你们结婚了，你bf会不会将来对你有什么阴影。

i think you may let him know that you're going to pay this money and it's hardly affordable...that's it. see what he'll say. it would anyway be your and his money even if he paid for you and you two got married later.

不要为了既得利益和你男朋友结婚，婚姻是一辈子的事情．

You want to marry him, because you love him, because you believe he will be happy if he marries you, AND, because you think you will save some money, too. :-)

I know this line of reasoning is very practical. And i admit i might also be prone to the option of getting married and saving money if i were you. (Kill two birds with one stone, why not?) But please take it into consideration that when it comes to love and marriage, most people have unrealistic expectations.

That's a dilemma of living in a realistic world.

[此贴子已经被作者于2004-11-17 20:41:40编辑过]

既然一定要用公司的，能否和老板说说，用你部门的培训经费帮你付。我原来办H-1，公司不肯出，但CIO同意用我们部门自己的经费。 还有我刚认识我LG的时候，他就主动关心我的身份问题，还教我不要花那么多钱了，结婚以后再说。。。

3000是很公平的价格啊,还是自己付吧.
对了,你可以装做不经意地跟你男朋友提一下,假装抱怨一下收费太高,看看他是什么意思.如果他没有表示的话,我觉得你也就不必指望他了.

不是3000，是8000
是有些贵了
跟BF商量一下吧