支持！我是女生，还在上学，因为是农村来的，
每年给父母至少2000，不含平时寄的东西，一方
面是还债，一部分给父母花。压力真的蛮大的，
好在老公很支持，从来都说是应该的。

不错的帖子！ 诚恳， 切中要害

centrum说得太好了，我也是这样想的，就是表达不出来。

I think if one person work in US, he/she give his family $1000-2000/year is normal.

That's not a burden to himself and it can help his family in China somewhat.

[此贴子已经被作者于2004-6-1 0:57:23编辑过]

IN most of the place of China,1000-2000 can support the family in the rural area and be some pocket money for the parents in the city since they have jobs and salaries.

I guess familes in the rural area are quite poor and we have a workmate here and he is fram rural area too, and he has to support everyone in his family.
His sister's husband is in hospital(cancer, so need surgery fees), his sister's son's tuition( and get friends to help to get admission), his brother is in hospital(suegery fees and living expenses), his brother want to do some business etc etc....well, he has 5 siblings in the rural area.SO I guess it took quite a while to settle people down then after you help them to certain degree then kindly you are not owing them that much any more.
Then you can help them when something happen.

Sometimes for some people from the rural area to get out of there, it took the whole family's sarcrifice to realize it.It may seems they took advantage of their siblings/family at that time to get the chance to live nicely right now.
So if they don't pay back, it will look like WangEnFuYi, plus it is his family and siblings.He can't bear them in the hot water.

其实每个人的观点都跟自己的生活背景家庭背景密切相关
这些话说得没错，可黑月难过之极的心情也是不可避免的
这样的事情本没有个对错，因为婚姻因为爱而变得不可划分
就看不同的人的不同取舍了

[此贴子已经被作者于2004-6-1 9:24:15编辑过]