i think people know the difference between guys who went to the bachelor party and guys who are always looking for bachelor parties everyday!

先不谈你男朋友找escort的事情，我就不明白为什么你可以去查他的email... 这很明显是侵犯人家隐私权的，如果他也这样打探你的行踪，查你的电话记录， 你会怎么想呢？ 觉得前面谁说的对，你们俩之间缺乏基本的信任和尊重，冰冻三尺非一日之寒。

escort的事，他打电话去问和到底找了没是俩码事，现在谁也不知道，所以也还谈不上原谅不原谅一说。 如果你真的想知道就向他挑明了问， 开诚布公的谈一下，告诉他你的态度和底线。

赶紧分了得了，一个出门在外招鸡，一个呆在家里偷窥，还凑合个什么呀

I can't agree more on this!!! [em00]

To 楼主
Both of you are obviously have problems.... don't just blame..blame.

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It is easy for us to say what to do. But you are in the relationship and it can be very difficult to make any decision. Basically, like Trump said, if a person cheats on you once, don't give him a second chance, because he will cheat on you again. For man it is not a big deal. That's what we can't understand. Apparently men can seperate sex and love. Or they just propagate this theory in order to get laid.

But, if you are in a long-term relationship and you are very attached to each other, you need to ask yourself what you want: If you want to maintain the relationship, you need to be prepared that same thing might happen in the future. If you want to get out of the relationship like most of the mm said, you need to be prepared of heartache. And be prepared that there are not so many good loyal men out there. - Loyality is due to absence of opportunity.

No matter what decision you make, no regret is the key.

有没有搞错啊，stripper的性质和escort差了不是一点两点了拜托。。。。
前者就是看看，后者可是有质的区别的
我觉得男人去看看table dancing什么的没什么大不了
可要是处心积虑的找妓女问题就比较大了
再说又不是没女朋友的人
绝对不能原谅，这个有了第一次就肯定会有第二次，没结婚就这样，结了婚还不知道什么德性呢。
道德品质问题。

晕。。等当了克林顿在要求别人作希拉里吧。。。

dump him!

we have some collegates who go to Brazil for business, you know, girls there are very hot and it is cheap to find an escort there.

Not everyone did it, those who won't do it are respected. And people pities wives of those who did it.
Since u r not his wife yet, forget it now.

拜托, escort和escort差别先搞清楚, 上床的有, 只是陪着喝酒,吃饭,旅游的也有, 只是party的更有, stripper和stripper也是这样. 你们连人家gg具体干了什么, 都不清楚,一个个义愤填膺的. 真受不了.

当然, 男的做这些事不是什么光彩的, 不是什么值得表扬的, 但也不是你们说的那么十恶不赦了. 动不动就劝人家分手, 你们了解多少实际的情况? 发生在自己身上, 真的能这么果断和坦然处之. 劝和不劝分, 更不要说, 关键问题是那个男的现在的态度,和女的的感受.