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This is the question you were supposed to ask in the very begining. // comfort
If you guys don't want to help, you don't have to. But please try to be a decent person and not to
hurt other people. We don't encourage insulting here. Really don't see your point of saying these.
If you guys thought you were decent, then we don't see that; If you were not, it made
even less sense that you tried to verbally abuse others.
hurt other people. We don't encourage insulting here. Really don't see your point of saying these.
If you guys thought you were decent, then we don't see that; If you were not, it made
even less sense that you tried to verbally abuse others.
以下是引用思想在2004-11-22 12:31:16的发言：
have to agree with u on that
have to agree with u on that
以下是引用SHDF在2004-11-22 8:41:15的发言：
有些中国女生到了国外，只能用一个字形容: 很见!
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以下是引用tiantiandog在2004-11-22 12:33:45的发言：
Thank you for all ur suggestions. The jms in Huaren are really nice. I can not input Chinese now so sorry for that.
I really love my boyfriend. And i think he also love me. We really have good time together. He said he was scared to loose me. That is the reason he told me until now. But he did not wanna lie to me, so he tell me now. He hope me to forget this thing. He will take care of it. He will be responsible to it and he does not wanna me involve it. Although he does not have too much money, he just graduated from the university as a Bachelar, he will give me the best life and give me what i want. I believe what he said. But i think i still need some time to get familiar this reality that he has a daughter.
Thank you for all ur suggestions. The jms in Huaren are really nice. I can not input Chinese now so sorry for that.
I really love my boyfriend. And i think he also love me. We really have good time together. He said he was scared to loose me. That is the reason he told me until now. But he did not wanna lie to me, so he tell me now. He hope me to forget this thing. He will take care of it. He will be responsible to it and he does not wanna me involve it. Although he does not have too much money, he just graduated from the university as a Bachelar, he will give me the best life and give me what i want. I believe what he said. But i think i still need some time to get familiar this reality that he has a daughter.
Once again, you still think too much about what he said. That may affect the correctness of your judgement.
Use more of your brain in this case, less of your heart.
以下是引用gemstone在2004-11-22 13:00:49的发言：
不同意的说，觉得有教育的美国人还是很保守的，我上课的同学大都是young professional， 跟他们聊天的时侯觉得他们对家庭生活是很看重的，像什么电视上的东东，生活中很少见。
不同意的说，觉得有教育的美国人还是很保守的，我上课的同学大都是young professional， 跟他们聊天的时侯觉得他们对家庭生活是很看重的，像什么电视上的东东，生活中很少见。
以下是引用superhero在2004-11-22 12:43:40的发言：
Spiderman 这个说得很好，省得偶再 type 了。
以下是引用homosapiens在2004-11-22 12:23:49的发言：
这个是有点MESSY, MM应该慎重. 话虽说是他对你的态度最重要, 但是他的这种情况确实是个很大隐患. 平时看看SPRINGER的SHOW, 发现美国的男女问题确实有一些很混乱,很NASTY的. 这时候就靠你的判断能力了. 不要全相信BF的话, 多从其他方面找线索来判断他的为人吧.
就象你很想进一个屋子, 但是里面可能有炸弹. 你只能靠自己来判断炸弹的真实性, 或者为了保平安, 干脆放弃进这个屋子的想法. 因为如果真的有人要炸你, 他肯定不会提前告诉你的. 其实人生很多时候是在赌博, 你就是那个GAMBLER.
有教育的当然普遍比没教育的好, 但是美国人在男女问题上总体来说肯定是比中国人开放和混乱的. 那么多很PROFESSIONAL, 很高层的人物不照样暴丑闻吗. 所以在这个问题上和他们相处是还是应该加一分小心.
那么久都不告诉你，他的credibility接近零。
Not sure why this post started for ~~ :)
Make up your own mind.. Why you need other people to tell you what to do???!!
It is your life, you need no body to tell you who you should stay with or break up with.
Make up your own mind.. Why you need other people to tell you what to do???!!
It is your life, you need no body to tell you who you should stay with or break up with.
同意Spiderman！虽然热恋中的人保持清醒的判断力不容易，但我还是建议你冷静一下。共度一生是很长的过程，即便现在所有的愿望都是好的，他有没有能力实践他对你和他孩子的诺言是无法预料的，不然的话，the more you love him, the more you suffer in the future. 我以为想太多他的话是没有意义的。
以下是引用homosapiens在2004-11-22 13:53:17的发言：
以下是引用tiantiandog在2004-11-22 12:33:45的发言：
Thank you for all ur suggestions. The jms in Huaren are really nice. I can not input Chinese now so sorry for that.
I really love my boyfriend. And i think he also love me. We really have good time together. He said he was scared to loose me. That is the reason he told me until now. But he did not wanna lie to me, so he tell me now. He hope me to forget this thing. He will take care of it. He will be responsible to it and he does not wanna me involve it. Although he does not have too much money, he just graduated from the university as a Bachelar, he will give me the best life and give me what i want. I believe what he said. But i think i still need some time to get familiar this reality that he has a daughter.
Once again, you still think too much about what he said. That may affect the correctness of your judgement.
Use more of your brain in this case, less of your heart.
have to agree with Huang Niluo jj here.
It has nothing to do with whether he's an American or Chinese, with different cultral background. It's that he didn't tell you till now!!! Being honest is the No.1 rule in relationship.
It has nothing to do with whether he's an American or Chinese, with different cultral background. It's that he didn't tell you till now!!! Being honest is the No.1 rule in relationship.
以下是引用HuangNiLuo在2004-11-22 14:17:30的发言：
那么久都不告诉你，他的credibility接近零。
那么久都不告诉你，他的credibility接近零。
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以下是引用joy2joy在2004-11-21 20:36:38的发言：
偶觉得他是否有个女儿倒不是最重要的，重要是他对家庭的观念还有责任感~
偶觉得他是否有个女儿倒不是最重要的，重要是他对家庭的观念还有责任感~
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