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faye
Will you still stay?
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2004-08-08 23:10:00
Yesterday, my good friend had her wedding. Everything went perfectly, except one thing. She forgot to include two persons' name on the reception list. These two person are bf and gf. The girl is bride's labmate. They are both americans. After they couldn't find their name on the list, they came to me since I was helping the bride to arrange the reception place. I asked them to check the list again, and went to find another guy to see how we can add two persons on. However, after we figured out the plan, we found these two person left. We asked their american friends to ask them back, but they didn't want to come back.
I felt so bad about it. I didn't realize that it would be such a big deal to them. Otherwise I should have let them sit in my place first and then think about other things. Although the couple (bride and groom) won't blame me for it, I still feel I should be partially responsible for it. Sigh...
That is why I have the idea about this survey, just to see whether you would still stay at the wedding if your name is forgotten to put on the reception list?
To me, I won't care about it at all. I think there are tons of things for the couple to prepare a wedding, so such a mistake is forgiveable.
How about you?
I felt so bad about it. I didn't realize that it would be such a big deal to them. Otherwise I should have let them sit in my place first and then think about other things. Although the couple (bride and groom) won't blame me for it, I still feel I should be partially responsible for it. Sigh...
That is why I have the idea about this survey, just to see whether you would still stay at the wedding if your name is forgotten to put on the reception list?
To me, I won't care about it at all. I think there are tons of things for the couple to prepare a wedding, so such a mistake is forgiveable.
How about you?
投票:Will you still stay? - 多选(最多可选3项)
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1、stay
2票 / 10%
2、not stay
6票 / 29%
3、depending on my relation to the new couple
13票 / 62%
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Of course I would stay...
You know what I am printing out guest list and name cards right now... Better not to make any mistake!!!
You know what I am printing out guest list and name cards right now... Better not to make any mistake!!!
对于国人来说,可能没什么么大不了,但对于老美来说,就是太不礼貌了,尤其是没有
立刻给人家找个位子坐下,反而让人家自己再去名单里找,简直就是侮辱人。根本就
要假装他们的名字在,暗地里临时安排一下。
反过来想,要是我去老美的婚礼,遇到此种待遇,恐怕说“discrimination"的心都有了。
立刻给人家找个位子坐下,反而让人家自己再去名单里找,简直就是侮辱人。根本就
要假装他们的名字在,暗地里临时安排一下。
反过来想,要是我去老美的婚礼,遇到此种待遇,恐怕说“discrimination"的心都有了。
以下是引用faye在2004-8-8 23:10:58的发言:
Yesterday, my good friend had her wedding. Everything went perfectly, except one thing. She forgot to include two persons' name on the reception list. These two person are bf and gf. The girl is bride's labmate. They are both americans. After they couldn't find their name on the list, they came to me since I was helping the bride to arrange the reception place. I asked them to check the list again, and went to find another guy to see how we can add two persons on. However, after we figured out the plan, we found these two person left. We asked their american friends to ask them back, but they didn't want to come back.
I felt so bad about it. I didn't realize that it would be such a big deal to them. Otherwise I should have let them sit in my place first and then think about other things. Although the couple (bride and groom) won't blame me for it, I still feel I should be partially responsible for it. Sigh...
That is why I have the idea about this survey, just to see whether you would still stay at the wedding if your name is forgotten to put on the reception list?
To me, I won't care about it at all. I think there are tons of things for the couple to prepare a wedding, so such a mistake is forgiveable.
How about you?
Yesterday, my good friend had her wedding. Everything went perfectly, except one thing. She forgot to include two persons' name on the reception list. These two person are bf and gf. The girl is bride's labmate. They are both americans. After they couldn't find their name on the list, they came to me since I was helping the bride to arrange the reception place. I asked them to check the list again, and went to find another guy to see how we can add two persons on. However, after we figured out the plan, we found these two person left. We asked their american friends to ask them back, but they didn't want to come back.
I felt so bad about it. I didn't realize that it would be such a big deal to them. Otherwise I should have let them sit in my place first and then think about other things. Although the couple (bride and groom) won't blame me for it, I still feel I should be partially responsible for it. Sigh...
That is why I have the idea about this survey, just to see whether you would still stay at the wedding if your name is forgotten to put on the reception list?
To me, I won't care about it at all. I think there are tons of things for the couple to prepare a wedding, so such a mistake is forgiveable.
How about you?
同意。这件事本身没什么,关键可能是当时楼主和他们的交谈导致了mis-communication, 他们觉得不爽。不过婚礼本来就是个麻烦场子,出这种岔子是很难避免的,主人去解释一下就行了,别放在心上。
同意
exactly. Take it as a lesson
以下是引用xiongranger在2004-8-13 14:06:05的发言:
对于国人来说,可能没什么么大不了,但对于老美来说,就是太不礼貌了,尤其是没有
立刻给人家找个位子坐下,反而让人家自己再去名单里找,简直就是侮辱人。根本就
要假装他们的名字在,暗地里临时安排一下。
反过来想,要是我去老美的婚礼,遇到此种待遇,恐怕说“discrimination"的心都有了。
对于国人来说,可能没什么么大不了,但对于老美来说,就是太不礼貌了,尤其是没有
立刻给人家找个位子坐下,反而让人家自己再去名单里找,简直就是侮辱人。根本就
要假装他们的名字在,暗地里临时安排一下。
反过来想,要是我去老美的婚礼,遇到此种待遇,恐怕说“discrimination"的心都有了。
以下是引用faye在2004-8-8 23:10:58的发言:
Yesterday, my good friend had her wedding. Everything went perfectly, except one thing. She forgot to include two persons' name on the reception list. These two person are bf and gf. The girl is bride's labmate. They are both americans. After they couldn't find their name on the list, they came to me since I was helping the bride to arrange the reception place. I asked them to check the list again, and went to find another guy to see how we can add two persons on. However, after we figured out the plan, we found these two person left. We asked their american friends to ask them back, but they didn't want to come back.
I felt so bad about it. I didn't realize that it would be such a big deal to them. Otherwise I should have let them sit in my place first and then think about other things. Although the couple (bride and groom) won't blame me for it, I still feel I should be partially responsible for it. Sigh...
That is why I have the idea about this survey, just to see whether you would still stay at the wedding if your name is forgotten to put on the reception list?
To me, I won't care about it at all. I think there are tons of things for the couple to prepare a wedding, so such a mistake is forgiveable.
How about you?
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