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bluesimon
what does he really want?
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2004-11-15 19:25:00
on oct 25 i gave him a call, talked for about 3 minutes and we had no contact after that for almost three weeks. last night he suddenly called me again. we talked for a while and he asked me how i'd been recently. i didn't ask him what he was doing during the past 3 weeks, or why he didn't call me for such a long time. 10 minutes after the call, he sent me a text message, only three words "I love you". i don't know what does he really want.
先做个沙发，觉得象个坑![]()
不太明白美眉在说什么？初恋啊？你得钓着他，怎么能让他钓你胃口呢？![]()
其实我也没有太明白你们到底怎么了?也不知道发生什么事情就不联系然后说爱你,好深奥呀
no, not a keng.
just that our relation has been quite ai4 mei4 for a long time. i don't know what does he want from this relation, and i don't know what i want to get either.
it's like, we can be very close for a while, talk about everything, then no contact for a long time. then somehow we'll come together again as if nothing has happened. he's told me many times that he loves me and i've told him that i love him. but now i'm really confused what's my feeling toward him. there is a long distance between us, both physically and mentally.
just that our relation has been quite ai4 mei4 for a long time. i don't know what does he want from this relation, and i don't know what i want to get either.
it's like, we can be very close for a while, talk about everything, then no contact for a long time. then somehow we'll come together again as if nothing has happened. he's told me many times that he loves me and i've told him that i love him. but now i'm really confused what's my feeling toward him. there is a long distance between us, both physically and mentally.
你要搞明白他再什么情况下说出来的他爱你.是不是空虚寂寞的时候才会想起爱你这会事
actually i think we're the kind of friends who are very very important to each other, so important that sometimes you get confused what's really going on between you two. that's why i said ai4 mei4. we're friends -- i won't tell other people he's my bf and he won't tell other people i'm his gf -- but at the same time we're definitely more than just friends. inside, i think we both (maybe just me) want to go one step further, but don't have the courage to take real action. what if that one step further fails? also, as i said before: distance, distance...
以下是引用layala在2004-11-15 19:30:17的发言：
不太明白美眉在说什么？初恋啊？你得钓着他，怎么能让他钓你胃口呢？![]()
不太明白美眉在说什么？初恋啊？你得钓着他，怎么能让他钓你胃口呢？
how can you find out that?
there's a long distance between us. he's in china.
there's a long distance between us. he's in china.
以下是引用zhaorongrong在2004-11-15 19:36:18的发言：
你要搞明白他再什么情况下说出来的他爱你.是不是空虚寂寞的时候才会想起爱你这会事
你要搞明白他再什么情况下说出来的他爱你.是不是空虚寂寞的时候才会想起爱你这会事
i'm not sure if you have friends like this: you may not contact each other for a long time; you don't know where he/she is, how he/she has been, what he/she has been doing, etc. but some day when he/she finds you again, you'll put everything aside to help him/her, to accompany him/her. it's like not a single day has passed, because he/she resides deeply in your heart. and, you know he/she will do the same thing to you. just like the song: winter, spring, summer or fall, all you have to do is call... you've got a friend.
for most friends, i agree that if you don't contact each other very often, you'll gradually drift apart and become strangers.
for most friends, i agree that if you don't contact each other very often, you'll gradually drift apart and become strangers.
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以下是引用bluesimon在2004-11-15 19:44:42的发言：
i'm not sure if you have friends like this: you may not contact each other for a long time; you don't know where he/she is, how he/she has been, what he/she has been doing, etc. but some day when he/she finds you again, you'll put everything aside to help him/her, to accompany him/her. it's like not a single day has passed, because he/she resides deeply in your heart. and, you know he/she will do the same thing to you. just like the song: winter, spring, summer or fall, all you have to do is call... you've got a friend.
for most friends, i agree that if you don't contact each other very often, you'll gradually drift apart and become strangers.
i'm not sure if you have friends like this: you may not contact each other for a long time; you don't know where he/she is, how he/she has been, what he/she has been doing, etc. but some day when he/she finds you again, you'll put everything aside to help him/her, to accompany him/her. it's like not a single day has passed, because he/she resides deeply in your heart. and, you know he/she will do the same thing to you. just like the song: winter, spring, summer or fall, all you have to do is call... you've got a friend.
for most friends, i agree that if you don't contact each other very often, you'll gradually drift apart and become strangers.
tell us if ths friend is male or female in your case and how is your feeling now, like hunting or fishing?
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