好奇怪的问题

想爱就好好的去爱。我觉得爱别人也是一件快乐的事情。当然，能有回应的爱是最好的。

可是如果连爱都要小心翼翼，我觉得或者也未免太累了吧。

Then how can you truly love? But at least a girl can protect her own body without being affended. Nobody can restrain his heart if truly in love

总能听说女孩子要保护好自己，别让人伤害了。我很想保护好自己。

想不出来该怎么做

个人认为保护自己要从保护身体做起。

以下是引用樱樱在2005-1-10 20:25:00的发言：
不要全心付出还是做好分手的心理准备？

i think it is absolutely necessary to keep a healthy boundary. not every relationship is meant for marriage and there's nothing wrong with that. the point is to discern the right person through dating, and love her/him wholeheartedly.

this is true.

以下是引用樱樱在2005-1-10 20:25:00的发言：
不要全心付出还是做好分手的心理准备？

那是说让你要有原则，有原则和坦诚为人不矛盾。

要是想你说的那样，就不是女生怎么保护自己，而是男同志们要发个帖子问问怎么保护自己了。