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以下是引用flyingpiggy在2005-9-30 12:31:00的发言：
always ask before you offer anything, no matter how close you and your American friends.![]()
always ask before you offer anything, no matter how close you and your American friends.
don't you ask before offering anything to Chinese friends too?
不过公共汽车上让座都很常见阿，被让的人都很感激地接受
以下是引用flyinghiiiigh在2005-9-30 12:47:00的发言：
不过公共汽车上让座都很常见阿，被让的人都很感激地接受
不过公共汽车上让座都很常见阿，被让的人都很感激地接受
I hesitate offering seats in a bus in China unless I see someone with obvious inconveniency. I remember my offer was turned down by an old grandpa .
Don't take bus here, so don't know the situation in the U.S
以下是引用flyingpiggy在2005-9-30 12:31:00的发言：
always ask before you offer anything, no matter how close you and your American friends.![]()
always ask before you offer anything, no matter how close you and your American friends.
agree
呵呵，是啊
我经常和老美谈话，这个yes和no的问题老是说不清楚
It will be a good idea if you say" Do you need help?" before you offer help.
美国电视上有广告，劝大家在公车上给老年人让座之类的，尊敬老年人。
有一个和残疾人相处的10项原则,具体我忘了叫什么了,但其中有一条就是,在对方没有提出要求帮助的情况下,不要去主动帮助.可能是他们希望别人把他们同样视为正常人. 这样是尊重的表现.
以下是引用jibjab在2005-9-30 12:18:00的发言：
7. 每每处于好心帮人拾起DROP 的东东, 总是被误认为侵犯隐私.
8. 帮人夹一块蛋糕, 老美说:I DID NOT ASK FOR HELP. 妈的, 偶门的文化讲究互帮互助
,老美勒..讲究DAMN “INDIVIDUAL”
有同感的RE 一RE 吧.
8. 帮人夹一块蛋糕, 老美说:I DID NOT ASK FOR HELP. 妈的, 偶门的文化讲究互帮互助
,老美勒..讲究DAMN “INDIVIDUAL”
有同感的RE 一RE 吧.
you either met weird people or you may be in a big city
My American collegues picked up snacks for me when they were in front of me in a line
Same here.
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