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[转帖]非常强的mm(from mitbbs)
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2005-07-14 13:50:00
标 题: 我是这样被骗的
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jul 13 09:26:44 2005)
阎璐,女,北大化学系95级,99年来美就读UI Chicago, 现住休斯敦。
在此人傲然放弃道歉的机会时我就说过,"你会付出代价的!" 这份帖子是她付出的代价之
一.
几周之前我与好友相约租车环游全美,在网上发消息希望有兴趣的人加入。远在休斯敦的
阎璐打电话过来,我和朋友一听背景,觉得至少受过北大教育,应该还算可靠。于是便三
人一起上路,路上三人对很多事情有不同看法自也难免,不过总之还算愉快。
行至波士顿时我们的旅行已过90%,路上大部分开销是我朋友和我付的,说好终点再算帐。
出于基本的信任,我们没有要求阎璐付押金,也没有每天结一次帐。
到波士顿后阎璐提出要住到一个朋友处,我们送她去后,说好第二天早上打电话再去接她
完成最后一段旅行。此人第二天后拒不接听我们的电话,自此消失。多次电话后,我们留
言说你不想继续走也可以,大家把帐结了也算好聚好散. 毫无回应。此人离开时带走了一
本我很喜欢的书,我最后留言说哪怕钱算了,你把我的书还给我,仍然 毫无回应。我和我
朋友自然很愤怒,但最终决定不在波士顿与她纠缠,自行上路前往终点站还车。
本以为事情这就结束了,我们也就当路上丢了一笔钱就算了,谁知道让我愤怒的事情还在
后面。
3天后我从纽约唐人街搭大巴去华盛顿,正在等车时抬头一看,嗨吆,这不是阎璐吗,和我
搭同一趟车去华盛顿。我走上前说 "钱就算了,你把我书还给我!" 阎璐就当我不存在一样
傲然而脸带鄙夷的从我面前走过去了,仿佛是我欠她东西一样, 或者更准确地说, 把这句话
写在脸上, "对, 我骗了你的钱, 不还! 我还不止骗了你的钱, 我还拿了你心爱的书, 我也
不还. 你能拿我怎么样?" 我对天发誓, 如果她是男人的话, 我那天一定狠狠地揍她! 不过
她是女人, 身形弱小的女人, 狡猾而且精确的判断出我不会揍她. 她的判断是对的.
华盛顿下车后, 我最后一次问她, "钱算了, 你把书还给我, 道个谦, 我就当什么都没有发
生过." 答案还是傲然而藐视的沉默. 我的最后一句话是"你会付出代价的!"
如果说从波士顿出发后, 我和我朋友想起这件事时多少还有点理解和怜悯 "可能人家缺钱
, 迫不得已做一回骗子, 也是被逼无奈, 我们就原谅她吧", 那么大巴车的经历是彻底激怒
了我, 让我每每想起来就觉得如鼠在喉, 不吐不快, 或是不骂不快 -- 我完全无法理解,
一本对别人很重要, 对她无用的书, 为什么不还给别人? 无赖至此, 我无话可说!
写这份帖子, 只是把我的教训与大家分享: 确实有无赖, 而且无赖的程度可能远远超过你
的想象, 所谓防人之心确不可无!
也想让阎璐知道, 对, 你有选择做无赖的自由, 我确实不会揍你, 不过你也要知道, 所有
的选择都要付出代价, 选择做无赖就要付出信誉作为代价.
2005年7月
--
不会真的有这种人吧,挺不可思议的。
哈哈,这强贴我老公昨天说准会被转到华人,果真如此
嗯,这样不要face的人,把她搁在大庭广众下晒晒也是应该的
太夸张拉吧!
新料
发信人: rollingstone (它山之石), 信区: Family
标 题: 事实真相----Lu Yan
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jul 14 15:20:16 2005)
我是替当事人lu Yan转贴,我想说如果骗钱为什么要告诉人家真名字和真实情况,一面之
词。泄路人家隐私不说,还是清华的毕业的,怎么这么没有风度。
Hey, I am the girl in the story.
Just to clarify some facts.
We, L (the author) and C (his friend) had a trip about 2 months ago, L started
it, C came along
Then I went along.
1. I paid my fair share of the expenses, so where is the cheating coming fr
om? (See Below 4)
2. Something unpleasant happened between L and me right before we got to Bo
ston, C wasn’t around. Very unpleasant for me, of course not for L. I was ver
y upset and angry, after that, he became such an unbearable sight for me, I di
dn’t look at L once, when I had to talk to him, I turned my face away. There
is no way I can enjoy the trip with him, so I decided not to come along. I wou
ld had ended the trip right there and then if I hadn’t bought airplane ticket
flying from Washington before we started the trip. I had to travel between Bo
ston, NYC and Washington all by myself, they took the rental car, so imagine a
ll the asking for directions, walking, buses, subways and frustrations, me wit
h heavy luggage in strange cities!!
3. When I met L again at NYC, he tried to talk to me, I simply walked away.
(I thought he was going to say sorry, silly me!) People that can’t treat me r
ight, I try to ignore, not out of spite or anything, just a way to protect mys
elf. Like I am trying to pretend this trip never happened, trying to delete it
from my memory. He never mentioned about owing him money, I don’t understand
why he didn’t bring it up then if he thinks I didn’t pay enough.
4. The expenses
Rental car
L and C arranged and rented the car, none of us paid anything when we picked
it up, we all left our cc and driver’s license information, we were to pay at
the destination city. It is not fixed rate and I wasn’t there when they retu
rned it, but according to L, who had experience from last year, the estimate s
hould be around 1000, maybe a little bit more, but shouldn’t be too much.
Gas
Again they paid for gas along the way, I don’t know how much it totals to, I
guess around 500?
Hotel
We shared double rooms, I slept on one bed, L and C slept on the other bed an
d a sleeping bag. ( I am very grateful to both of them for giving the bed to m
e). I paid for all the hotels,
Most by cc, 2 days by cash because they gave discount for cash. The total shou
ld be around 700 ~ 800, and I paid for some toll, not too much 20 or so. Here
is part of my cc statement.
05/23 24399005144016248896269 MOTEL 6 00002535 GRANTS PASS OR 52.79
05/24 24399005145016249099243 MOTEL 6 00004077 TROUTDALE OR 47.64
05/27 24610435148072028026377 SUPER 8 MOTELS GARDINER MT 52.85
05/27 24610435147072010197393 SUPER 8 MOTELS KALISPELL MT 78.00
05/27 24610435149072007494975 SUPER 8 MOTELS JACKSON WY 76.85
05/29 24017815149980000095734 LARAMIE ECONO LODGE LARAMIE WY 76.45
05/29 24493985150170726800472 SUPER 8 NORTH PLATTE NORTH PLATTE NE 66.40
06/02 11531532700000272751652 PAYMENT - THANK YOU 464.35
06/02 24323015154252084010049 ECONO LODGES WILLIAMSVILLE NY 50.91
Meals,
We basically had fast food all the way, each paid his own. We did share some m
eals at 2 or 3 china towns, the total should not exceed 100, I think?
So, L and C paid rental car, gas, shared meals, 1000+500+100=1600, so they eac
h paid about 800
I paid for hotel and toll. Around 750 and I didn’t use the car after we got t
o Boston, so I am confused how I am cheating L out of money. If I am a cheater
, I must be a dumb one!
Moreover, they still need to pay all of these (a little bit less on meals) if
I didn’t come along, so he actually saved money, I don’t see what he is comp
laining about.
As to what happened around Boston, I don’t know if it is what he referred to
as“路上三人对很多事情有不同看法自也难免” to clarify, C was totally innocent,
he wasn’t even there. It was just the two of us “有不同看法”, as to the de
tails, I leave all the writing to him, I wrote too much already!
On a personal note, though I don’t know C that well, he seems a very decent p
erson and didn’t do anything wrong. I am sorry he got involved into the unhap
piness between L and me. If he had called me the other day instead of L, I wou
ld have picked up the phone. Guess L didn’t tell him about it. We didn’t hav
e each other’s number, if I had his number, I would have called ehim at Bosto
n and worked things out.
As to L, all said, I still respect him as a fellow human being and wish him lu
ck with GIC.
To myself, it could have been a pleasant trip and some beautiful memories, som
eone just had to ruin it for me, tough luck isn’t it?!
到底了
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