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Huaren
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[求助]Help, What should I do?

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2005-11-17 13:38:00

I just won two game tickets for tonight. I am not a big fan of sports, but I think it wiil be a good activity in our boring life.

LD does not want to go because he wants to play on line game tonight. Part of the reason I want to go is that I am kind of mad at him. He plays game almost every everning. We have not done anything fun for a long time because he needs to get on line on time. I always have to make time for his game. I told him if he does not want to go, I will go by myself.

The issue is we drove one car to work today. I told him that I can ask one of my coworker who lives 2 blocks from us to give him a ride. He is still not satified. He said he does not know that guy very well. How good he needs to know the guy if all he needs is a ride?

I do not have to go to the game. I want to go because I am so tired of fact that his game always gets in my way. I feel that I do not have a life anymore. We used to argue about it all the time. I am so tired. If he likes it, I won't say a word about it anymore. I just want to get my life back. I am not going home doing nothing just because he wants to go home.

He is mad now because he asked me to go home with him first, then go to the game myself and I refused. The game and our home is in the totally different directions. I feel that he really does not care for me at all. At lease at this issue. I feel hurt. Since he is only thinking about himself. I will do whatever best for me. He said he is going to call a cab, I said go ahead. I will take the car go to the game.

What do I do? Do I take the car and go to the game? Do I ask one of my coworker go with me? There are some single guys in my department. I am sure they will want to go.

Do I give both of the tickets away. Again I am sure someone will want to go.

sign................. What should I do.........

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teameimei

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2005-11-17 13:47:00

以下是引用一瓣心香在2005-11-17 13:38:00的发言:

I just won two game tickets for tonight. I am not a big fan of sports, but I think it wiil be a good activity in our boring life.

LD does not want to go because he wants to play on line game tonight. Part of the reason I want to go is that I am kind of mad at him. He plays game almost every everning. We have not done anything fun for a long time because he needs to get on line on time. I always have to make time for his game. I told him if he does not want to go, I will go by myself.

The issue is we drove one car to work today. I told him that I can ask one of my coworker who lives 2 blocks from us to give him a ride. He is still not satified. He said he does not know that guy very well. How good he needs to know the guy if all he needs is a ride?

I do not have to go to the game. I want to go because I am so tired of fact that his game always gets in my way. I feel that I do not have a life anymore. We used to argue about it all the time. I am so tired. If he likes it, I won't say a word about it anymore. I just want to get my life back. I am not going home doing nothing just because he wants to go home.

He is mad now because he asked me to go home with him first, then go to the game myself and I refused. The game and our home is in the totally different directions. I feel that he really does not care for me at all. At lease at this issue. I feel hurt. Since he is only thinking about himself. I will do whatever best for me. He said he is going to call a cab, I said go ahead. I will take the car go to the game.

What do I do? Do I take the car and go to the game? Do I ask one of my coworker go with me? There are some single guys in my department. I am sure they will want to go.

Do I give both of the tickets away. Again I am sure someone will want to go.

sign................. What should I do.........


don't be mad and sad, sell the ticket on ebay, make some money, invite him for a dinner then forget everything

Unlike Meimei, I complain my ld to be with me all the time, and I don't have my personal time!!

Huaren
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2005-11-17 13:51:00

以下是引用teameimei在2005-11-17 13:47:00的发言:


don't be mad and sad, sell the ticket on ebay, make some money, invite him for a dinner then forget everything

Unlike Meimei, I complain my ld to be with me all the time, and I don't have my personal time!!

He is not going to go to dinner with me because he needs to go home and get on line. That is everything about. He does not have time for anything else.
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bigeyes

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2005-11-17 13:56:00

你当然应当找一个同事或是朋友一起出去看game,这样的劳工太不像话了,即使他没有别的事也应当支持你的。出去高兴高兴,换换空气8。你回家绝对不会高兴的。


你劳工是不是不爱跟人打交道啊?

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bigeyes

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2005-11-17 14:08:00

你还可以直接把那个ride安排好,叫那个人走的时候叫上你劳工,然后通知劳工会有人,不要对他发脾气,就象一切都是和他商量好了的,他就没办法了,总不能对别人发脾气八。路上人家肯定会问,怎么不和老婆一起去看球啊?他就该想想了。
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teameimei

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2005-11-17 14:08:00

以下是引用一瓣心香在2005-11-17 13:51:00的发言:
He is not going to go to dinner with me because he needs to go home and get on line. That is everything about. He does not have time for anything else.

if this happens occasionally, let it be, if he acts like that all the time, you two need a serious talk.


I feel your husband is addicted, hard to quit a !!


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2005-11-17 14:16:00

I think you should go to the game with a friend of yours. Just think this way: it's always a nice thing to share some good time with your friend too.


And don't be mad and sad about your LD. It will do no good to your life and your relationship. Find things you like to do and do it yourself or with your friend.


Cheer up and be happy.

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2005-11-17 15:50:00

Thanks to all the JJs and MMs.


I will go to the game and let himself find a way to go home!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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