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Huaren
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Izzie

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2006-09-07 00:26:00

以下是引用heavysnow在2006-9-7 0:08:00的发言:
以下是引用Izzie在2006-9-6 23:53:00的发言:
以下是引用vegetarcat在2006-9-6 18:50:00的发言:

drawing a diagram about debt vs asset.

You will stop shopping.

A picture (or a chart, in this case) is worth a thousand words!

 

Unfortunately, a true shopaholic does not simple stop spending even when the debt level is high. Shopaholism is an addition, and is no different than those who are hooked on gambling. Education and self control only work on those who display slight symptom of Shopaholism – loves to shop but shopping has not become a major addition.

how come you sound more like my boss all of sudden

I agree to what you have said.  I think once you are in the shopping mood, nothing and/or nobody can drag you back.

Great minds think alike! Lol…

I came across the following excerpt from an online article and thought it was interesting enough to share with you guys -

If you feel as though your spending habits might indicate signs of shopaholism then you should start curtailing your behavior as soon as possible. Most compulsive buyers tend to make their spending mistakes in one recurring area. To find out where your weakness lies, take an inventory of everything you own and make a mental note of it so that the next time you go shopping you can resist the urge of buying that item. You can even postpone buying something to quell your urge because if you wait 24 hours, chances are you probably won't want it anymore. Another approach you can take is to buy less than you ordinarily would have, for example, instead of buying three pairs of shoes buy only one. You could also put yourself on a 30 day spending moratorium and use only cash on basic necessities such as food and transportation. Having a strict budget of how you will spend your paycheck and keeping track of every penny also helps.

Huaren
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Issis

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2006-09-07 18:04:00

我的经验是,和好朋友商量好,你想买什么东西的时候打电话给他/她,叫她帮你分析这个东西是否实用,你究竟需不需要。开始你可能还有所抵触,会偷偷买些小东西,但久而久之,就没有什么购物欲望了!
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heavysnow

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2006-09-07 20:02:00

以下是引用Issis在2006-9-7 18:04:00的发言:
我的经验是,和好朋友商量好,你想买什么东西的时候打电话给他/她,叫她帮你分析这个东西是否实用,你究竟需不需要。开始你可能还有所抵触,会偷偷买些小东西,但久而久之,就没有什么购物欲望了!

可是有的时候有的东西a little bit towards不想买,和朋友一商量朋友会会可以买,怎么办?

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yan9993

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2006-09-07 22:12:00

以下是引用Issis在2006-9-7 18:04:00的发言:
我的经验是,和好朋友商量好,你想买什么东西的时候打电话给他/她,叫她帮你分析这个东西是否实用,你究竟需不需要。开始你可能还有所抵触,会偷偷买些小东西,但久而久之,就没有什么购物欲望了!

这个,这个

 

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Issis

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2006-09-08 10:22:00

以下是引用heavysnow在2006-9-7 20:02:00的发言:
以下是引用Issis在2006-9-7 18:04:00的发言:
我的经验是,和好朋友商量好,你想买什么东西的时候打电话给他/她,叫她帮你分析这个东西是否实用,你究竟需不需要。开始你可能还有所抵触,会偷偷买些小东西,但久而久之,就没有什么购物欲望了!

可是有的时候有的东西a little bit towards不想买,和朋友一商量朋友会会可以买,怎么办?

哈~就是要事先和朋友说好每次要给她打电话商量的目的啊!告诉她就是要控制购买欲,所以朋友会想方设法找理由不叫你买!
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长发飘飞

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2006-09-14 15:12:00

只买自己需要的;不要因为东西便宜就去买。

逛时尚版时要有自制力,别跟风。再不行的话,就要求老公,或BF一起来监督自己。

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soulanlake

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2006-09-18 12:40:00

偶个人觉得,女人的购物欲望一般很难控制,除非少上街,上网

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heavysnow

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2006-09-18 14:52:00

可是这两个“除非”很难做到的。

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tommytommy

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2006-09-25 22:14:00

I was addicted in shopping two months ago, feel much better right now.
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ikie

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2006-09-26 11:48:00

我也有点这方面的毛病,囤积狂。后来来了个超省的HOUSEMATE(日本mm), 一星期食品不超过15刀,还吃得不错。和她购物, 就很有节制。所以朋友很重要。
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