生命比phd重要吧。再说在美国养孩子也花不了多少钱。

当然要啊，一条小生命啊。我9周b超听到小孩心跳的时候，眼泪哗就留下来了。以后还有以后的事，不可能完全ready了才要。

我博士刚入学一个月就发现自己怀孕了，最后还是生了，觉得很好，不生我觉得会后悔的。博士大不了晚点毕业，比起孩子来，这些都没什么的
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phD期间是最适合要小孩的......

I have both of my sons when I was doing my phD (biomedical area). My older one was born 3 month before my qualifying exam and grant deadline. My younger one was born 4 month before my thesis defense. My parents and in-laws helped for the first year and then we are on our own for both kids. It is very challenging physically and metally, but I dont regret it.

以前也纠结过，后来生下来小宝宝之后才觉得，当初决定留下来真是太明智了！

虽然辛苦，但是看看她的一颦一笑都觉得好幸福，什么都是值得的