有多少人觉得婚姻应该是一夫一妻呢？没人要禁止同性恋行为，只是觉得他们那个叫marriage不太合适。

比如，婚外情，这个也和乱伦，卖淫，不是一个category， 这个行为有争议，当事人可能觉得命运作弄不能自已。这个行为社会上很多了，也有陆一曼，还有啥别的听美好的例子。

但是要是这些人说作为小三，情妇受到了歧视，要争取一夫多妻合法化，是不是就让人难以接受呢？

总之，道德上的标准每个人都不一样，大多数人能接受，就可以作。所以要投票，这个彼此不太可能说服的，有什么观点有投票权就一定要投，然后就接受结果好了。

I like your blue words. Good argument!

But I don't think we can persuade anyone on this issue.

Really, why they insist on "marriage", they already accept the word "gay" and "les", why not use "gayrage" and "lesage", why would that hurt their feeling?

I am glad that it is passed, at least it sends out a message to people what is the right direction that we as human being should go for. I think 乱伦and同性恋 are in the same category, as they are against the biological rule that i have been believing in. As more and more ppl 乱伦 and 同性恋, human being will extinct eventually, although it is very unlikely to happen.

If you look at the summary of arguement against prop 8:

Equality under the law is a fundamental freedom. Regardless of how we feel about marriage, singling people (if a farther and his daughter are both single, and they want to get married, can you accept that? ) out to be treated differently is wrong (If two things are different, i don't see why we call them the same name). Prop. 8 won't affect our schools, but it will mean loving couples are treated differently under our Constitution and denied equal protection under the law (They can get the same protection as marriage can bring them, i am not against that, but not under the name of marriage).

所以说道德的标准对错是很模糊的。

赞成同性恋婚姻的，可能有一百条理由反对卖淫嫖娼，其实不过是每个人的道德标准不一样而已。

投票就是看看大多数人怎么想，顺着大伙儿的意思。

所以说道德的标准对错是很模糊的。

赞成同性恋婚姻的，可能有一百条理由反对卖淫嫖娼，其实不过是每个人的道德标准不一样而已。

投票就是看看大多数人怎么想，顺着大伙儿的意思。

because they themselves also know that they are special group in the entire population and they want to be called NORMAL.

hehe, I just hope she won't teach her kids about sex using the "hole" language, sign....

他们是少数，而且他们没有得到应有的权利。

不是正常和非正常的区别。