以下是引用nnzz在1/15/2010 5:48:00 PM的发言：
I went through similar problems with my second pregnancy. i was also 35 then. So maybe my experience will give you some hope.

The most important thing is to find a GREAT infertility doctor in your area, although most OBGYNs do perform infertility exams. The real infertility doctors are reproductive endocrinologists.

One more thing: my doctor told me that in many cases, even though the ovulation test (using the kit) is positive, it does not mean that you actually ovulated. It's possible that your body is ready to release the egg (that's why you get a positive reading), but the egg is never released for some reason.

What he did to me is that the first 3 months, he put me on ovulation induction drug (Femera). On day 3 of my period, I go to the office and get an ultrasound to make there is no cyst. Then from day 3 to day 8, I take Femera for 5 days. On day 11 (or day 12), I get another ultrasound to see whether there are follicles forming. If there is mature follicle (eggs are forming), then on day 13, I will inject myself with one shot of hormone to induce the egg. Egg will be released within 40 hours. Then I do the work with my husband. On day 21, I go to the office to get blood work to check whether I have ovulated or not by checking  Progesterone level.

I was not successful after 3 cycles like this. During the last month, I finally did the HSG test and my tubes are both open. My husband is normal too.  The doctor's conclusion is that my egg may not be active enough. In the next two cycles, starting from day 3, I was doing hormone injection (I forgot the name) everyday (75 ul each) for 5 days, in addition to Femera. On day 12, i saw 2 big mature follicles. Then I did another injection that night to induce the release of the egg.

I finally got pregnant during the second month.

My other point is maybe the natural IUI is not working because your egg is not active enough. Before this infertility doctor, my regular OB told me he would do IUI for me immediately. I am glad that i didn't waste my time with him. I believe that the hormone injection really made a big difference.

I was getting very desperate too, and the doctor told me that if I failed again, he would have to do IUI or IVF on me. But I am lucky this time.

Hopefully, you will be lucky too. Good luck!

以下是引用hellobaby在1/17/2010 12:33:00 AM的发言：

我完全理解LZ的心情，因为我有和LZ类似的经历。上一次怀孕是不经意间怀上的，错过了例假自己也没注意，因为要出差才测了一下。结果出差回来没多久自然流产掉了。从去年起开始和LG积极造人，可是偏偏天不随人意，一直没有好消息。排卵试纸也用了，几乎没看到过测试线和对照线一样的时候，就更不用说深过对照线了，人已经处于极度沮丧的阶段了。看了医生，但是医生说我怀上过，所以觉得应该没问题，不给做额外的检查。

 

我也和LZ一样，做事情很努力，也相信努力就有回报，但是这件事上，我有点觉得再怎么努力也没法左右结局了。

 

刚刚看了starbustMM推荐的讨论，心里好过一点了，不是每个人都有强阳的。

以下是引用gosummer在1/17/2010 4:58:00 AM的发言：

我们一起努力，互相鼓励吧。也许就像很多姐妹说的那样，不经意的时候宝宝可能就来了。

你不用太在意排卵试纸的深浅，只要有一天是跟以前比最深的就应该是要排卵了。我和劳工都作了很详细的检查，主要是怕我们万一有什么问题，自己不知道，瞎试的话，浪费时间。建议妹妹要不也检查一下，买个安心吧。如果双方都没问题，年纪也轻的话，就慢慢试好了。我是年纪大了，等不及了。