这个问题问得真奇怪。难道非要有爸爸跟着一起出去？
我经常逛街就只带着我儿子。因为我LD他就不愿意逛街。

那个女的怎么这样啊 ？！

nothing wrong with this...........

我没娃，但是我看得很气愤，四岁小男孩妈妈带着上厕所很正常吧？唧唧歪歪的至于么？美国卫生间里都有门，也没谁能看见，别扭什么啊？（有人要是总觉得有男娃想在厕所里偷窥她，是不是该去看看心理医生了？）。在国内没门的厕所到处都是，带男娃的妈也有不少，哪个打国内来的没见过？到了美国就开始金贵啦，看不得啦，说句大实话要不是精神病那就是纯粹装B

再说说楼主，那一岁多的孩子也许有病不能穿尿布呢（确实有这样的），楼主想让他妈怎么办？让那孩子憋着？还是楼主亲自教教那女娃怎么用马桶？。。。那孩子他妈无非也就是应该在那孩子小便过后清理一下，她没清理也许是情况不允许呢？国内随地大小便的大人都多了去了，不至于这么大惊小怪吧。

隔壁车上被鄙视的帖子，就看得我很郁闷，再看这个帖子，我彻底怒了，咱就不能别老挑自己人的刺儿么？再说楼主，涵养这么高，就不能当时去问问那个带孩子随地大小便的妈妈需不需要帮助么？到这儿来曝光有意思么？

都关着门，没有关系

好奇，如果是爸爸带着四五岁的女儿出门怎么办？带去上男厕？我属于看见小男孩进女厕很不舒服的那一类，run

貼一些背景研究，純學術討論，沒有說lz不好，大家表激動。
總的來說3-7歲幼童出現性意識是正常發展階段，和成人性意識有所不同。另一方面，對性罪犯的統計調查發現他們很大程度上在5歲前就出現非正常的性意識，如對高跟鞋、繩子、女性內衣褲的興趣，性幻想，其中有一例是自耍性器官。（這個不在下面的wiki文章裡，來源：Profilers, Edited by John H. Campbell and Don DeNevi)

Child sexuality is the sexual feelings, behaviors, and development of children. Until Sigmund Freud published his Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality in 1905, children were often regarded as asexual, having no sexuality until later development. Freud was one of the first researchers to seriously study child sexuality. While his ideas, such as psycho-sexual development and the Oedipus conflict, have been rejected or labeled obsolete, acknowledging the existence of child sexuality was a milestone.^[1] Children are naturally curious about their bodies and sexual functions — they wonder where babies come from, they notice anatomical differences between males and females, and many engage in genital play or masturbation. Child sex play includes exhibiting or inspecting the genitals. Many children take part in some sex play, typically with siblings or friends.^[1] Sex play with others usually decreases as children go through their elementary school years, yet they still may possess romantic interest in their peers. Curiosity levels remain high during these years, but it is not until adolescence that the main surge in sexual interest occurs.^[1]

The following sections describe typical culturally-normed behavior among developed Western societies.

[edit] Early childhood

From the ages of three to seven, the following behaviors are normal among children:

• Children are curious about where babies come from.^[27]
• Children may explore other children's and adults' bodies out of curiosity.^[27]
• By age four, children may show significant attachment to the opposite-sex parent.^[27]
• Children begin to have a sense of learned modesty and of the differences between private and public behaviors.^[27]
• For some children, genital touching increases, especially when they are tired or upset.^[27]

这帖子。。。到底是讨论带男娃进女厕所的，还是小孩随地小便的？