虽然很多人都说是gay但是确实有那种一心投在事业上的男人。但是你确定他真的喜欢你而不是因为你的maintenance比较低（一周一天）？要是某天他事业搞定了开始对男人女人有兴趣了，你确定他不会找别人？如果你bf道德值比较高，你又能够接受他这么冷淡的话也没问题。求仁得仁。另外quote一下我觉得形容这种人比较贴切的一段话

He Needs Time
This one is very common with “great catches”. Usually guys that understand what a relationship implies and how to treat a woman etc are also the guys that run companies and have demanding jobs (let’s call them smarter…guys).
A guy like this has some very clear priorities. Unfortunately in most cases, relationships and love come second before his new company, career and other “more important” things in his life. If you’ve got a guy like this, you can either trick him into a relationship (which will be a very imbalanced relationship, at least until his company/career gets to where it should be – which could take forever) or leave him on the spot and go search for a guy that has time to properly cherish you.
Many of these guys are and will be married to their careers their whole life. They may seem great from the outside but once you get inside, you’ll see that many of the things that make a relationship great, are probably missing from your life.

psyentistc 发表于 12/22/2014 7:52:49 AM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1751809&postid=65737096#65737096]

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你自己不冷淡的话就不要嫁，关键是 大家要一致。
tobeornottobe 发表于 12/22/2014 12:04:26 AM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1751809&postid=65735659#65735659]

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