你太低估父母对孩子的影响力了。这个不同意不是突然的。这种价值观在二十多年的教育中无时不刻地渗透出来。

同意楼主point

结果是有顺服的也有逆反的。。。。

这个比方。。。残疾不是你让不让的。。。。心里不愿意是一回事，但不愿意不代表有控制啊。

敢问您有孩子么？
大街上很多homeless的人，我也不歧视他们，心情好的时候还给他们点钱。但是绝对不允许我的孩子成为那样的人。矛盾？

homeless和gay是两个概念。

所以我见不得宣传同性恋的。 因为无法证实同性恋不受后天影响可以从直的变弯。
更何况还有双性恋的存在，本来可以选择正常过的异性恋，因为某些言论让他们觉得同性恋更能让自己proud而选择同性恋。

If there is a choice, I think most of the parents don't want their children to be on a tough road ( like being single and childless for the entire life, dropping off Yale and starting their own small business, joining army, marrying a lower-class wife/husband, being left-handed or being gay.) However, unlike dropping off Yale or marrying a lower-class spouse, being gay or being left-handed is not a choice. Maybe someone can become left-handed by practising, or becoming gay for fun, but most of them don't. They are born this way. Life for gay is very tough. They need their parents' love and support. So if parents say, "I wish my child is not gay", that is not because they think being gay is sin, but they know being minority is very hard.

这里讨论的不是gay不gay的问题，而是：不歧视一类人！= 愿意让自己的孩子成为这一类人。请问您歧视homeless的人么？