这里讨论的不是gay不gay的问题，而是：不歧视一类人！= 愿意让自己的孩子成为这一类人。请问您歧视homeless的人么？




ciuciu 发表于 10/30/2014 3:20:11 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1716775&postid=65050886#65050886]

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If there is a choice, I think most of the parents don't want their children to be on a tough road ( like being single and childless for the entire life, dropping off Yale and starting their own small business, joining army, marrying a lower-class wife/husband, being left-handed or being gay.)
However, unlike dropping off Yale or marrying a lower-class spouse, being gay or being left-handed is not a choice.
Maybe someone can become left-handed by practising, or becoming gay for fun, but most of them don't. They are born this way. Life for gay is very tough. They need their parents' love and support.
So if parents say, "I wish my child is not gay", that is not because they think being gay is sin, but they know being minority is very hard.
pop 发表于 10/30/2014 3:03:06 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1716775&postid=65050529#65050529]

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你类比的要是同一个类别的。比如gay和homeless一个没什么影响，一个影响生活质量，就和刚才看到把gay和杀人犯类比一样。

换种说法有很多搞艺术的人，我觉得很难出头，但是自己孩子要是愿意，我没啥反对的。

lucky1860 发表于 10/30/2014 3:22:21 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1716775&postid=65050938#65050938]

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是啊，就像那些人说，不允许自己孩子是同性恋一样，也没有用啊
为什么大家可以理解家长不同意自己孩子不结婚，就不能理解家长不同意自己孩子是同性恋呢？

ciuciu 发表于 10/30/2014 2:53:19 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1716775&postid=65050308#65050308]

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gay 有多难啊。我觉得马云因为外貌身高受到的歧视比cook是gay受到的歧视肯定多多了。cook还能hide in closet. 马云想hide 都不能hide.
马云说自己normal, 也没说i am proud of being short and ugly.

除了极少部分人，谁在这世上不受到或多或少的歧视啊。
yshe 发表于 10/30/2014 3:28:08 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1716775&postid=65051040#65051040]

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嗯，那就是教育理念不一样而已
有很多搞艺术的人，很难出头，但是有些家长愿意让孩子搞，有些家长坚决不让孩子搞。就这样，有什么好笑的么？

ciuciu 发表于 10/30/2014 3:24:36 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1716775&postid=65050979#65050979]

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家长把自己的思维强加在孩子身上真的好么？


lucky1860 发表于 10/30/2014 3:31:49 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1716775&postid=65051124#65051124]

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gay 有多难啊。我觉得马云因为外貌身高受到的歧视比cook是gay受到的歧视肯定多多了。cook还能hide in closet. 马云想hide 都不能hide.
马云说自己normal, 也没说i am proud of being short and ugly.

除了极少部分人，谁在这世上不受到或多或少的歧视啊。
yshe 发表于 10/30/2014 3:28:08 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1716775&postid=65051040#65051040]

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