因为男的和女的的生理系统不一样。女的压力大会需求多一点，男的久不行了。

agree. besides no kiss and no hug, that is totally not right.

If you don’t have kid I would suggest you
to go to a therapist first. If it’s not working, you should seriously consider
the divorce. Coz I don’t think you deserve such “sexless” life. You are a woman
in a marriage relationship and you deserve love, hug and sex.

But you have a kid now and the little kiddo
should have a complete family. It’s not a good idea to let your kid live
without a father. So why don’t you have a good long talk with your husband? Let’s
see what his hidden reasons for this.

If he is gay then you can definitely dump
him and move on. Coz he doesn’t deserve you and he is being irresponsible for
the whole thing. It’s ok to be a gay but he should take responsibility.

If he is not gay, then go to the therapist
or doctors to find a help. Gook luck!

go to a therapist is never a possibility, and yes, i live on this for my baby

人个性比较内向，沉闷。工作压力也许比较大，加上孩子。。。

所以没什么好说的了。你主动些好了。都老夫老妻。孩子都生了。如果你不上班的话，你可能体会不到工作中很多郁闷。。如果男人不想让女人操心，基本就是打落牙齿咽到自己肚子里去了。多点理解。

Relationship needs a lot of work. So is marriage.

如果你使劲浑身解数，你老公还无动于衷。那再借助外界力量。A片, marriage counseling.