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【伊版管理处】基於Gender identity gender expression 会员性别、性倾向,会员自己說的算

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2021-05-21 01:55:16

在伊版,由于交流内容围绕亲密关系,性事为主,所以每层主想自己被视为或被称为 什么性别,什么性倾向,性味等等 来发贴 比 阅读者说该层主是什么性别 等等 来得更重要。


阅读者需要尊重该层主的自称性别,性倾向,性味,等等。


Why is it important to respect people’s pronouns? ~ by https://uwm.edu/lgbtrc/support/gender-pronouns/

"You can’t always know what someone’s pronouns are by looking at them. Asking and correctly using someone’s pronouns is one of the most basic ways to show your respect for their gender identity.


When someone is referred to with the wrong pronoun, it can make them feel disrespected, invalidated, dismissed, alienated, or dysphoric ( often all of the above.)


It is a privilege to not have to worry about which pronoun someone is going to use for you based on how they perceive your gender. If you have this privilege, yet fail to respect someone else’s gender identity, it is not only disrespectful and hurtful, but also oppressive."


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Gender identity and gender expression

從以上的連結轉載: https://www.ohrc.on.ca/en/policy-preventing-discrimination-because-gender-identity-and-gender-expression/3-gender-identity-and-gender-expression

以下:

“Sex is the anatomical classification of people as male, female or intersex, usually assigned at birth.


Gender identity is each person’s internal and individual experience of gender. It is a person’s sense of being a woman, a man, both, neither, or anywhere along the gender spectrum. A person’s gender identity may be the same as or different from their birth-assigned sex.


Gender expression is how a person publicly expresses or presents their gender. This can include behaviour and outward appearance such as dress, hair, make-up, body language and voice. A person’s chosen name and pronoun are also common ways of expressing gender. Others perceive a person’s gender through these attributes.


A person’s gender identity is fundamentally different from and not related to their sexual orientation.


Trans or transgender is an umbrella term referring to people with diverse gender identities and expressions that differ from stereotypical gender norms. It includes but is not limited to people who identify as transgender, trans woman (male-to-female MTF), trans man (female-to-male FTM), transsexual, cross-dressers, or gender non-conforming, gender variant or gender queer.


Gender non-conforming individuals do not follow gender stereotypes based on the sex they were assigned at birth and may or may not identify as trans.


“Lived” gender identity is the gender a person feels internally (“gender identity” along the gender spectrum) and expresses publicly (“gender expression”) in their daily life including at work, while shopping or accessing other services, in their housing environment or in the broader community. See section 13.3.3 of this policy: Recognizing lived gender identity.”

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2021-05-21 02:03:51

望本版贴文会员能 support gender inclusive pronouns。

请参考: [url]https://www.bottomline.org/content/support-gender-inclusive-pronouns[/url]

“we try to build a culture where we don’t make assumptions or pass judgment on each other. So if a person chooses to tell you their pronouns (in their signature line or otherwise), they are simply letting you know how you can refer to them, without you having to make any assumptions.”

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「if someone decides to tell you their pronouns, it does not automatically mean they are transgender or gender non-conforming. It’s basically a way of saying “rather than operating in a system where we assume each other’s gender and automatically attach pronouns to each other, I’ll instead let you know what pronouns work best for me.” Isn’t life easier when we’re not always having to assume things about each other?」


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2021-05-21 03:28:36

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我不反对同性恋,不反对gender transformation,但是我不能接受gender self identification之类的虚假不真诚的东西。


人贵在真诚。如果Sarah姐认为很有必要把gender self identification之类的作为版规,那我就只能离开了。大家玩得开心。

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2021-05-21 04:21:19

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至于情到深处是沧桑的性别是我靠直觉猜的,当然了我也有小小的可能会猜错。


她在和我闹着玩,被人觉得我在搞基。这个我不是很喜欢。有的事情挑明一下还是有必要的吧。而且我能感觉出来,她并不刻意坚持她假扮的性别,否则我也不会说出我的猜想的。

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2021-05-21 07:05:43

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我不反对同性恋,不反对gender transformation,但是我不能接受gender self identification之类的虚假不真诚的东西。


人贵在真诚。如果Sarah姐认为很有必要把gender self identification之类的作为版规,那我就只能离开了。大家玩得开心。


三波sangpo 发表于 2021-05-21 03:28

欢迎常回来看看玩玩。你的发言带给我很多启发,再次感谢

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情到深处是沧桑

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2021-05-21 08:30:14

我欣赏直率,但这的确是一个彻头彻尾的误解。我想假以时日,大家会有一个正确的认识。

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2021-05-21 09:01:21

我欣赏直率,但这的确是一个彻头彻尾的误解。我想假以时日,大家会有一个正确的认识。


情到深处是沧桑 发表于 2021-05-21 08:30

既然你这么坚持,我只好尊重你的想法。


我闪

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2021-05-21 09:48:33

版主这个“性味”到底是个啥东西?一直没有搞明白。

另外,论坛本来就是一个匿名的地方,大家畅所欲言没有任何包袱,为什么要搞什么性别甄别?下来是不是要有年龄甄别,学历甄别,工资甄别。。。。。?

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MeekSarah

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2021-05-21 10:10:00

不是版规,我不选择为版规的因素有许多条件但不包括以下:


一、未经活跃会员们协商过


二、性别,在论坛这种平台暂时无法鉴定其真实性


三、我不信我个人的判断力来定任何版规


暂时还没有任何「伊版管理处」的主题内容是版规的。因为每一个主题都是需要 case by case 地 有待相关会员协商交流的地方。


我到现时连扣魅力分都没有实行过。






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