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人到中年,婚姻中缺少了【性】,還能走多遠?
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2022-02-21 06:16:20
“中年夫妻什麼都有,有孩子、有父母、有房貸、有車貸……就是沒有性生活。”
看著這句話,是不是覺得紮心又無奈?
可中年夫妻的婚姻,確實是這樣的。婚姻行至下半場,各有各的隱晦與皎潔。
婚姻除了性需求和生兒育女的功能之外,還是一種生活的扶持,是一種情感的溝通。有些時候生活中表面上是缺少性,實際上可能是缺少了愛的表達。
羞於啟齒的“性”,讓很多夫妻都失去了表達內心真實感受的機會。
能夠主動坐下來,和伴侶聊一聊這件事,談一談彼此對於性的喜好和看法,不是每對夫妻都能做到的事情。
不要害怕談及它,更不要拋棄對另一半探索的意願。
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https://www.youtube.com/embed/foqwcEOvOnY
No Sex Marriage – Masturbation, Loneliness, Cheating and Shame | Maureen McGrath | TEDxStanleyPark
https://www.youtube.com/embed/LVgzOyHVcj4?showinfo=0
communication
the sex education we are provided
intimacy feeling
in between taking care of the growing kids and old parents, there is internet. We are connecting to internet more than our spouse.
motherhood
healing from sexual abused
unresolved conflict
financial issue
PEA "love drug"
@time mark 17:50 gene DRD4 has been isolated in cheaters
a sexless marriage is the environment to turn on that gene
@time mark 19:10 sex life never end
if you are healthy, you could have great sex life well into your 80s 90s
sex is good and sex is healthy
中年夫妻什麼都有,有孩子、有父母、有房貸、有車貸……就是沒有性生活。
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buc 发表于 2022-11-04 11:28
说出你的故事……
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