difficult situation. Thinking from the child perspective, it's not a good thing if one parent doesn't want him. If you have fights now, after the baby is born, there will be more fight. It's a very demanding job to raise a kid. However, he may change after seeing cute little thing. It's a risk though. If I were you, unless you are prepared to raise the child on your own, I'll probably not have it.

唉,这样mm会很累,你们好好谈谈吧,毕竟孩子是2个人的

是的，今天已经这么跟他说了，分手算了，他不答应，说等以后准备好了可以要，这次我要很想要也可以要，但真觉得没意思。不知道一辈子没小孩很要紧吗？另外，我的经济能力一个人养孩子没问题，但不打算那么苦自己。