熟人一般表面上都会过得去，我工作的team除了我全是白男白女，几个白男全是支持共和党的，平时都对我挺友好的，一起工作没啥问题。但来自陌生人的恶意极有可能。我今年road trip经过一个红州的城市，中午在Culver’s午餐时，旁边桌一对白人夫妻带四个小孩，我们就座后他们转移到另一边的位置，当时我还以为他们怕自己的小小孩闹腾吵到我们了，因为他们的小孩一直跟我女儿打招呼，我女儿也挥手回应。我老公说我有点天真了🥹

在餐馆吃饭的是文明人，再歧视你也不会肉体伤害。等你到兰州碰到哪个homeless恶向胆边生，才是最要命的

chatgpt这时候就过于客气了，我催了好几次，稍微像样点的回复

Funny, coming from someone whose ancestors were immigrants too.

Unless you’re Native American, you’re the one who needs to rethink where you came from.

I’m as American as you are. If anyone needs to go back and rethink things, maybe it’s you.

以下是让CHATGPT不要过分礼貌婉转的回答：

“I’m as American as you are. Deal with it.”

“If you’re not Native American, you don’t get to say that.”

“Look who’s talking—your ancestors weren’t from here either.”

“America’s built by immigrants. Guess you forgot.”

“Go back where? I’m right where I belong.”

进一步的

If they respond by claiming their ancestors “built the country,” here are some follow-ups that challenge this narrative and remind them of the darker aspects of that history:

1. “Built it on what? Stolen land and forced labor. So much for that ‘legacy.’”

• This response highlights that much of American history is built on injustices like the exploitation of enslaved people and the theft of indigenous land.

1. “Your ancestors built it? You mean by exploiting Native Americans and enslaved people?”

• This directly points out that their “building” involved oppression and exploitation, putting their pride in a different light.

1. “Built it with whose help? Slavery, genocide, and exploitation? Let’s not pretend it was all noble.”

• This frames their ancestors' contributions within the historical realities of brutality, emphasizing that they didn’t achieve it alone or ethically.

1. “Built it on stolen land, with enslaved people. That’s your ‘foundation’?”

• A sharp reminder that their “building” came at a tremendous moral cost.

1. “Funny how you forget whose labor built the country.”

• This is a subtler way of pointing to the contributions of enslaved people and exploited groups without directly naming them, which can sometimes hit harder as it prompts them to reflect.

These responses force them to confront a fuller and more complex view of American history, reminding them that claiming ownership over “building the country” isn’t as straightforward as they might believe.

maga的美国人，大部分也是好人，小部分是白人种族主义者，另外受教育程度比较低的民主党支持者，也是潜在的种族主义者。很多华人总是把种族主义者划分为民主党支持者和共和党支持者，以此来攻击对方，这是错误的，两党都有对华裔的种族主义者。trump的危害在于，他把这些人的种族情绪激发了出来，原来对华裔还算友好的，现在看华人也不顺眼了，原来本来就看华人不顺眼的，现在有胆对华人喊"go back to china“了

本质就是个概率问题，打个比方吧，trump以前，华人遇到go back to china是20年一次吧，大部分人一辈子都不会碰上，在trump挑起这种基于肤色的情节后，几率是3年一次，当然根据地区几率又不一样，很多人仍然10-20年都不会碰到，但更多的人会遇到了。

我公司同事的儿媳在纽约就遇到过go back to china(虽然她是韩国人)，我两个同学在大公司工作，都因为芝麻大点甚至莫须有的罪名，被指控窃取机密吃了官司。

没错！ 就是这样的！来吧，互相伤害嘛，就比如 说你眼睛小，你就可以说她，一天用几次deodorant？ 怎么还那么大的味儿？或者，你没少花钱 买剃毛工具打理你的 furry skin吧？

我女儿和她的朋友handled very well.她们马上去报告了老师，说xx is being a racist to me. 老师让那男娃道了歉。

我希望这种种族主义言论能够被压制，我们的下一代不要遇到这种事情。

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Are you going to buy me a flight ticket?

你以为深蓝州没有么？其实就是接触理论，你跟那边接触多了，你就怪那边歧视。本质上是都歧视，没有区别。无非是深蓝州同事不会那么直白嘴上嚷嚷，看不明白这个的简直是白在美国生活了。

我家娃最近被同学说带的零食是dog treats, 我给老师写信，不解决就不罢休的意思，哪怕才是低年级小豆包也不行。说她的同学可是来自经典的蓝州蓝州地区民主党铁杆家庭，有钱的犹太人。