不知你具体指什么，愿闻其详。

我查了下，觉得楼主儿子不能在朋友餐馆里打工，不拿钱也不行。

Exchange students traveling to the United States to participate in an exchange program need an exchange visitor visa, also known as a J-1 visa.

J-1 visa holders can work off campus in certain circumstances: 

• Economic hardship
• J-1 students may be eligible for off-campus work authorization if they are facing severe economic hardship. The circumstances must be unexpected and beyond their control. 
• Related to their major
• Off-campus employment may be authorized if it''s directly related to the student''s major field of study and enhances classroom learning. 
• Practical training
• Responsible officers may authorize J-1 students for practical training, which includes paid off-campus employment and/or unpaid internships.

J-1 visa holders can volunteer without work authorization if they meet certain criteria, but most other work requires work authorization, whether it''s paid or unpaid: 

• Volunteering
• J-1 visa holders can volunteer if their activities meet the definition of volunteering, such as: 
• Taking a shift at a food bank 
• Donating time with the American Red Cross 
• Serving at a homeless shelter 
• Walking dogs at an animal shelter 
• Building for Habitat for Humanity 
• Other work
• J-1 visa holders need work authorization for most other work, whether it''s paid or unpaid. This is because the U.S. Department of Labor wants to protect jobs for U.S. citizens and prevent worker exploitation.

你们的事跟人家长相、感情经历有个毛线关系

既然你这么明白，人家为生计奔波还要带俩孩子，你一再”送人”去添乱，是挺烦人的。

礼卡有点少,不如不送.不过这不是主要原因了,她想要你投资,你不想投.为什么还想你儿子去她店里打工呢? 你们在两个国家,本来友谊就挺难维持的

就是 楼主各种优越感 提些有的没的

送个闲置的洗碗机？我看二手平台闲鱼上最多也就值几百人民币。楼主优越感很强啊。

见过几次了，LZ开帖疑惑某某，结果大多回复都是不向着LZ的，然后就匆匆SSSS，好奇这些人真的发帖前以为网友会站自己？

我用了“疑惑”，非“抱怨”，不想这类LZ觉得“我没抱怨呀，就是陈述一下”😜

开餐馆哪有时间去欧洲玩？ 一天365 天恨不能开店。 所以楼主的offer 对她就是空头支票

最低工资可以啊。

你用人不给工资不是违法？违反最低工资法。

不过我也不是很了解。

楼主是不是不咋带孩子，张口就让人家给你带16岁没工作经验的孩子。这娃从小家庭条件不错，估计也不是有眼力见会干活儿的。