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Huaren
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dingdang008

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2024-11-28 07:02:41

回复 30楼 Seraphy82 的帖子

这个太难了,尤其是对至亲, 不过我也别无他法,释然了,否则真的跟自杀差不多。

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izz.ling

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2024-11-28 07:03:25

gmgamer 发表于 2024-11-28 06:49

NPD就到处套磁,如果你太有同理心,或者内心不够坚强,就会被套牢。一旦意识到了,立刻远离就行了。NPD会去寻找下一个目标。


所以关键就是不要被套牢,一旦意识到跟对方在一起怎么都不舒服,又说不清楚原因,那就要考虑远离。


“NPD就到处套磁”, 嗯所以不要盲目以为主动闯进自己生活的都是能于万千人海中看见自己的人🤭其实他们可能同时在敲好几家的门😑

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2024-11-28 07:04:26

Seraphy82 发表于 2024-11-28 06:52

是的,不要圣母心,不要同理心泛滥,尊重他人命运,不参与别人因果。也称为灰岩疗法。


你这是把多少隐性NPD的饭碗都砸了😂

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2024-11-28 07:06:50

dingdang008 发表于 2024-11-28 07:02
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这个太难了,尤其是对至亲, 不过我也别无他法,释然了,否则真的跟自杀差不多。


接受他们在自己剧本里退场这件事真的也是很难过的。

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2024-11-28 07:16:14

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感觉NPD 是病,但这些人不可能承认自己病了寻求医治,尤其老一辈文化低的, 无解的一生

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2024-11-28 08:45:42

Seraphy82 发表于 2024-11-28 06:17

我老公的npd行为,举个例子,有天他看报纸,关于非法移民的,他发表完观点,问我的观点,我观点跟他不一致,他突然暴怒、发火,叫我下跪认错,我不承认他的观点对,他追着我满屋吵一天不让睡觉。有点像麦琳,她说1+1=10你也得说她对。


类似这种事情发生了很多次,鸡毛蒜皮的小事最后都要变成争对错,让我下跪认错,最后上网一查才明白,服从性测试。偏偏我从小就倔强,不是我错了,我不会服软的,奉陪斗到底。


不能直接离吗?为啥要奉陪到底?

你还年轻,还有机会。等他老了必须有人照顾的时候,你可能就会因为良心不忍不离了。趁现在离婚没有道德枷锁,离了吧!

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2024-11-28 08:48:31

dingdang008 发表于 2024-11-28 07:16
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感觉NPD 是病,但这些人不可能承认自己病了寻求医治,尤其老一辈文化低的, 无解的一生


有文化也没用。这是为数不多的不能治疗的精神疾病。假如是真的有,那是不可能好的。

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明朗少女

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2024-11-28 08:53:34

dingdang008 发表于 2024-11-28 07:16
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感觉NPD 是病,但这些人不可能承认自己病了寻求医治,尤其老一辈文化低的, 无解的一生


就算承认有病 人格障碍也没办法治疗吧


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2024-11-28 08:56:07

回复 37楼 doublemint 的帖子

查了一下,确实无药可救。

Narcissistic personality disorder is a personality disorder characterized by a life-long pattern of exaggerated feelings of self-importance, an excessive need for admiration, and a diminished ability to empathize with other people's feelings.


Generally speaking, however, most experts agree that it is usually not worth trying to reason with a narcissist. This is because narcissists are notoriously difficult to engage in any kind of meaningful dialogue as they are often incapable of seeing things from anyone else's perspective other than their own.


As with many personality disorders, the exact cause of NPD is not known. Researchers believe it may be caused a mixture of genes, early childhood experiences and psychological factors. Early childhood risk factors include: excessive praise or judgement by parents.


Negative childhood experiences. There may be a link between negative childhood experiences. Trauma, rejection, neglect and lack of support during childhood can all contribute to developing narcissistic traits.


Because of this lack of empathy, a narcissist cannot really love you. Narcissists do not experience and show love in the sense that most people do.


NPD cannot be cured but can be managed with therapy and medication. The goal of treatment is to help the person with NPD learn how to recognize their own self-defeating behaviors and replace them with healthier coping skills that allow for more meaningful relationships


The best way to deal with a person with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is to get out of their way by extracting yourself from this person's life and influence. It is not your job and outside of your capabilities to make another person understand that they have a condition called NPD.


Yes, it is possible for individuals with narcissistic traits to change over time, though the process can be complex and challenging. Here are some key points to consider: Self-Awareness: As people age, they may gain insight into their behaviors and the impact of those behaviors on their relationships

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2024-11-28 08:59:13

回复 38楼 明朗少女 的帖子

如果意识到,可以改善。前面一个层主把她老公训好了

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