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2010-12-04 00:47:00
4 years old boy could go to lady's restroom? Just curious
where should he go? You are not supposed to leave him alone. Adult female can go to man's restroom?
上family bathroom啊，一般商场都有的吧
一般都没有。walmart, target, macys都没有。
但是他们还没做妈妈所以他们不feel comfortable。好吗？
这个世界真是越来越变态。你说人的容忍底线低了吧，什么drug, sex,3p,4p,6p，同性都恩能够接受，甚至合法化，但是对4，5岁小孩上异性厕所又接受不了。
我们这里的游泳池换衣间规定就是5岁一下不同性别的小孩可以进，到处贴着很醒目的规定。但是有些中国女的就是脸皮厚，带着8、9岁甚至更大的小孩也进去了。有次正准备换衣服，就看着一个很大的男孩进来直直的盯着女生的身体在看，当时特别崩溃，赶紧跑卫生间小隔间去换的。然后还听他妈在跟另一个带男孩的女的聊天：“你儿子多大了？”“8岁多了。”“那比我儿子小。”
你不在格间里换？就算没有男人，被女人看见也不好意思吧。
貼一些背景研究，純學術討論，沒有說lz不好，大家表激動。
總的來說3-7歲幼童出現性意識是正常發展階段，和成人性意識有所不同。另一方面，對性罪犯的統計調查發現他們很大程度上在5歲前就出現非正常的性意識，如對高跟鞋、繩子、女性內衣褲的興趣，性幻想，其中有一例是自耍性器官。（這個不在下面的wiki文章裡，來源：Profilers, Edited by John H. Campbell and Don DeNevi)
Child sexuality is the sexual feelings, behaviors, and development of children. Until Sigmund Freud published his Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality in 1905, children were often regarded as asexual, having no sexuality until later development. Freud was one of the first researchers to seriously study child sexuality. While his ideas, such as psycho-sexual development and the Oedipus conflict, have been rejected or labeled obsolete, acknowledging the existence of child sexuality was a milestone.[1] Children are naturally curious about their bodies and sexual functions — they wonder where babies come from, they notice anatomical differences between males and females, and many engage in genital play or masturbation. Child sex play includes exhibiting or inspecting the genitals. Many children take part in some sex play, typically with siblings or friends.[1] Sex play with others usually decreases as children go through their elementary school years, yet they still may possess romantic interest in their peers. Curiosity levels remain high during these years, but it is not until adolescence that the main surge in sexual interest occurs.[1]
The following sections describe typical culturally-normed behavior among developed Western societies.
[edit] Early childhood
From the ages of three to seven, the following behaviors are normal among children:
- Children are curious about where babies come from.[27]
- Children may explore other children's and adults' bodies out of curiosity.[27]
- By age four, children may show significant attachment to the opposite-sex parent.[27]
- Children begin to have a sense of learned modesty and of the differences between private and public behaviors.[27]
- For some children, genital touching increases, especially when they are tired or upset.[27]
甭在这扯这个，就说5岁小男孩要上厕所，爸爸不在，你说怎么办吧！
让他一个人去男卫生间，万一出事了怎么办？美国法律不允许的单独把一定岁数的儿童单独相处，有的州12岁，有的州低一些，但是5岁觉得不行，不信你把你自己5岁孩子一人放家，让后告警察试试？
hehe, 那些drug, np很难bother 到普通人，可是restroom人人都要用啊。
我疑惑的是大家在哪个国家上的厕所。反正我在美国上的公共厕所都是带隔间的，没哪次能有机会见到隔壁同僚的屁股。怎么轮到有小孩去的卫生间，大家都担心被偷窥了呢？谁是裤子不提好就出门洗手吗？
我还没娃，不过觉得小男孩进女厕所没什么啊，都是有隔间的，什么都看不见，也就洗手的时候能照面。
不过如果是更衣间就有点那个，大家都是光的，稍微大点的孩子就不合适了。。。
商场更衣间也是分开的阿。除了fitness room
到底了
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