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Huaren
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2010-12-03 00:44:00

以下是引用雨光在12/3/2010 12:23:00 AM的发言:

前天才看了电视节目,好像就在讨论大家能接受多大的孩子到异性的洗手间去,大部分美国人的普遍回答是6岁左右都能接受。
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不能接受。其實男孩在3-5歲的時候就有性意識了。
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2010-12-03 01:31:00

以下是引用xph在12/3/2010 1:26:00 AM的发言:
干嘛纠结lz儿子几岁上厕所呢

我觉得哪怕一个成年男的再隔间上厕所 也没小女孩在外边地上尿了扬长而去JP...

LZ还帮着收拾了很好心阿


呵呵,因為那個沒有爭議,大家一致鄙視啦
不過我覺得看到最好提醒一下,不管對方接受不接受吧
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2010-12-03 21:37:00

貼一些背景研究,純學術討論,沒有說lz不好,大家表激動。
總的來說3-7歲幼童出現性意識是正常發展階段,和成人性意識有所不同。另一方面,對性罪犯的統計調查發現他們很大程度上在5歲前就出現非正常的性意識,如對高跟鞋、繩子、女性內衣褲的興趣,性幻想,其中有一例是自耍性器官。(這個不在下面的wiki文章裡,來源:Profilers, Edited by John H. Campbell and Don DeNevi)

Child sexuality is the sexual feelings, behaviors, and development of children. Until Sigmund Freud published his Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality in 1905, children were often regarded as asexual, having no sexuality until later development. Freud was one of the first researchers to seriously study child sexuality. While his ideas, such as psycho-sexual development and the Oedipus conflict, have been rejected or labeled obsolete, acknowledging the existence of child sexuality was a milestone.[1] Children are naturally curious about their bodies and sexual functions — they wonder where babies come from, they notice anatomical differences between males and females, and many engage in genital play or masturbation. Child sex play includes exhibiting or inspecting the genitals. Many children take part in some sex play, typically with siblings or friends.[1] Sex play with others usually decreases as children go through their elementary school years, yet they still may possess romantic interest in their peers. Curiosity levels remain high during these years, but it is not until adolescence that the main surge in sexual interest occurs.[1]


The following sections describe typical culturally-normed behavior among developed Western societies.

[edit] Early childhood

From the ages of three to seven, the following behaviors are normal among children:

  • Children are curious about where babies come from.[27]
  • Children may explore other children's and adults' bodies out of curiosity.[27]
  • By age four, children may show significant attachment to the opposite-sex parent.[27]
  • Children begin to have a sense of learned modesty and of the differences between private and public behaviors.[27]
  • For some children, genital touching increases, especially when they are tired or upset.[27]

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2010-12-03 22:09:00

以下是引用summer7800在12/3/2010 9:54:00 PM的发言:
这帖子。。。到底是讨论带男娃进女厕所的,还是小孩随地小便的?

大家自便,愛討論啥討論啥~
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2010-12-04 01:15:00

以下是引用空山小语在12/4/2010 1:01:00 AM的发言:

甭在这扯这个,就说5岁小男孩要上厕所,爸爸不在,你说怎么办吧!

让他一个人去男卫生间,万一出事了怎么办?美国法律不允许的单独把一定岁数的儿童单独相处,有的州12岁,有的州低一些,但是5岁觉得不行,不信你把你自己5岁孩子一人放家,让后告警察试试?

 

拜托,不要亂指矛頭好吧。我根本沒有說lz這樣做有問題。都說了只是在討論學術問題而已,可以說跟這帖子沒啥特別的關系。
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