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2010-01-14 17:53:00
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今天好难过，怀不上求祝福！
年纪比较大，３５了，已经试孕一年两个月了，中间怀过一次４０天流产，之后就再也怀不上。两个人都去检查了，没什么大问题。我排卵非常规律，试纸都能测出，可是，可是，每个月都非常努力的做功课，还是没有。做了两次自然的IUI，也都失败。难道一定要IVF吗？ 本来就很没信心，很难过了，结果今天知道一个比我还大的朋友也怀孕了。实在忍不住跑出办公室，在楼梯间里抹了一把泪。很想为朋友高兴，可实在忍不住觉得为什么自己这么没用。自己做事总是很努力，也总是有回报。可就是在这件事情上，怎么努力都没有！
大家劝劝我和祝福我吧。谢谢谢谢！
谢谢MM。自己很没出息，计划过旅行，都是围绕这排卵期计划的，搞到出去玩也不尽兴。
红糖姜水喝过几次，没见效就一怒之下不喝了。
今天真沮丧，觉得好绝望。
MM抱抱。同难过。
我也试了好久了，还是没有消息。
检查也没有检查出什么问题
现在也只有听天由命了
反正是一直情绪低落
只有放宽心吧，不然也没有什么办法
对呀，每个月月初就雄心壮志，月底就意气消沉！劳工说我快成神经病了。
朋友都说，别想那么多，放松就好。可－－－可－－－放松不下来啊。
我们互相鼓励吧，难过的时候聊聊。
MM平常都上什么网啊？
blessMM!
ID上是你的妞妞吗，好水灵的小姑娘啊，真希望我也快快有一个！
放松对我也都是一时的
我有时候就觉得也没什么，大不了不要了
可一般到了晚上快睡觉的时候就觉得自己咋这么不顺
平时我也就这几个华人网逛逛，我还一般是超级潜水员
最近比较郁闷，也没人说去，这不就跳出来了嘛
＂到了晚上睡觉的时候就觉得自己咋这么不顺＂
说出了我心声啊。朋友都说没想到你表面这么大大咧咧的人，怎么在这事儿上这么较真儿！我也是郁闷没处说，每次跟劳工说，就弄的自己跟祥林嫂似的，劳工都烦。所以现在没辙了，到这里找大家的安慰了。
MM是不是还年轻？ 我想我要是刚３０就一定不会这么急。
MM有去检查过抗体吗？你PL期内膜厚度有查过吗？如果没有的话，建议查一下，看你的情况，PL没问题，那有可能是子宫的环境不是太好，这个会影响着床的。另外吃点中药提高一下子宫的环境比较好。
从国内带过三个月的中药，也不知道有没有效果，吃完了就没有再吃了。
同意这个。去玩玩。就一个月，不管什麽日子了。放松很重要。另外玩回来可以试试吃促排卵药，加促release egg 的针的IUI. 我有两个朋友都是做了这种IUI怀上的。Good Luck!
I went through similar problems with my second pregnancy. i was also 35 then. So maybe my experience will give you some hope.
The most important thing is to find a GREAT infertility doctor in your area, although most OBGYNs do perform infertility exams. The real infertility doctors are reproductive endocrinologists.
One more thing: my doctor told me that in many cases, even though the ovulation test (using the kit) is positive, it does not mean that you actually ovulated. It's possible that your body is ready to release the egg (that's why you get a positive reading), but the egg is never released for some reason.
What he did to me is that the first 3 months, he put me on ovulation induction drug (Femera). On day 3 of my period, I go to the office and get an ultrasound to make there is no cyst. Then from day 3 to day 8, I take Femera for 5 days. On day 11 (or day 12), I get another ultrasound to see whether there are follicles forming. If there is mature follicle (eggs are forming), then on day 13, I will inject myself with one shot of hormone to induce the egg. Egg will be released within 40 hours. Then I do the work with my husband. On day 21, I go to the office to get blood work to check whether I have ovulated or not by checking Progesterone level.
I was not successful after 3 cycles like this. During the last month, I finally did the HSG test and my tubes are both open. My husband is normal too. The doctor's conclusion is that my egg may not be active enough. In the next two cycles, starting from day 3, I was doing hormone injection (I forgot the name) everyday (75 ul each) for 5 days, in addition to Femera. On day 12, i saw 2 big mature follicles. Then I did another injection that night to induce the release of the egg.
I finally got pregnant during the second month.
My other point is maybe the natural IUI is not working because your egg is not active enough. Before this infertility doctor, my regular OB told me he would do IUI for me immediately. I am glad that i didn't waste my time with him. I believe that the hormone injection really made a big difference.
I was getting very desperate too, and the doctor told me that if I failed again, he would have to do IUI or IVF on me. But I am lucky this time.
Hopefully, you will be lucky too. Good luck!
谢谢妹妹的鼓励！你的经历让我也觉得很受鼓舞。我打算下个月就做注射的IUI试试。年纪大了，卵子的质量不好是很有可能的。
恭喜你好孕！
我完全理解LZ的心情，因为我有和LZ类似的经历。上一次怀孕是不经意间怀上的，错过了例假自己也没注意，因为要出差才测了一下。结果出差回来没多久自然流产掉了。从去年起开始和LG积极造人，可是偏偏天不随人意，一直没有好消息。排卵试纸也用了，几乎没看到过测试线和对照线一样的时候，就更不用说深过对照线了，人已经处于极度沮丧的阶段了。看了医生，但是医生说我怀上过，所以觉得应该没问题，不给做额外的检查。
我也和LZ一样，做事情很努力，也相信努力就有回报，但是这件事上，我有点觉得再怎么努力也没法左右结局了。
刚刚看了starbustMM推荐的讨论，心里好过一点了，不是每个人都有强阳的。
你不用太在意排卵试纸的深浅，只要有一天是跟以前比最深的就应该是要排卵了。我和劳工都作了很详细的检查，主要是怕我们万一有什么问题，自己不知道，瞎试的话，浪费时间。建议妹妹要不也检查一下，买个安心吧。如果双方都没问题，年纪也轻的话，就慢慢试好了。我是年纪大了，等不及了。
今天上来看到这么多姐妹的留言，觉得心里分外的温暖！好像心里的重担轻多了似的。谢谢大家的鼓励和祝福，我会尽量放松，也积极治疗，有消息一定会来跟大家汇报的。
跟我有同样苦恼的姐妹，可以发信给我。我们一起加油！
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