以下是引用huajimeiren在2/23/2004 3:24:57 PM的发言：
To share my story:
almost fell for a guy, 他仁慈地拒绝我
表面原因是他认为我比他混得好,
实际原因是,我想,他认为我长得太丑.(据说这是男人拒绝女人的唯一真正原因,嘿嘿)

以下是引用robinsnow在2/23/2004 3:19:19 PM的发言：
love the wrong guy
and cannot stop
time to get married
but cannot make up mind b/c i am not satisfied
and hesitate to break up b/c i treasure our past so much

以下是引用huajimeiren在2/23/2004 3:13:04 PM的发言：
care to share more on how "messed" up?

以下是引用robinsnow在2/23/2004 3:11:41 PM的发言：
b/c i messed up ah
don't want daughters to repeat my mistakes!

以下是引用huajimeiren在2/23/2004 3:03:27 PM的发言：
U'VE REALLY THOUGHT THIS THROUGH!

以下是引用robinsnow在2/23/2004 3:02:32 PM的发言：
it depends on the daughters
if she is talented, i think it is a good idea to have a relatively laid-back husband...i would be happy for her if she chooses someone who loves her and takes care of her...as long as he is a decent person...

well, if my own daughter is not that talented...it is still a better idea to have the best possible to provide for her!

以下是引用huajimeiren在2/23/2004 2:47:11 PM的发言：
我被灌输了这种封建思想,所以自己是改不过来了
赞成你说的如果有女儿,不要这样教育她
可是如此教育出来的女儿,如果选择不如她的丈夫,我会不会气死呢?

以下是引用robinsnow在2/23/2004 2:42:49 PM的发言：
xixi
i think my personal life is messed by this idea...
i would not teach my daughter this at all ;-)

以下是引用huajimeiren在2/23/2004 11:11:05 AM的发言：
说到底,我比较封建思想,认为男人**要比女人多点,学历也不能比女人差

以下是引用wolfe在2/24/2004 11:25:19 PM的发言：
ft，居然有那么多人喜欢charlotte！

以下是引用iceblue在2/25/2004 10:10:59 AM的发言：
我觉得脱离这个剧集， CHARLOTTE是我最能接受的。 在现实生活中我觉得MARANDA旧稍显无味， SAM过於轻佻， CARRIE太游弋不定。。 只有CHARLOTTE我觉得是作女友的最佳人选。。 呵呵。。