no. just talking about myself.  i specifically said it's my personal opinion.. not judging you or anyone else.

All i'm trying to say is I could never have imagined how much fun it is to have a baby until I've had one myself. And now that I actually tried it, I couldn't imagine how much I would have missed without him.

i thought this is a post from someone hesitating asking for advice so just trying to share my personal experience.  Not interested in arguing with those that have decided not to have kids. it's all personal preference.