以下是引用bluesimon在2004-11-15 19:37:13的发言：
actually i think we're the kind of friends who are very very important to each other, so important that sometimes you get confused what's really going on between you two. that's why i said ai4 mei4. we're friends -- i won't tell other people he's my bf and he won't tell other people i'm his gf -- but at the same time we're definitely more than just friends. inside, i think we both (maybe just me) want to go one step further, but don't have the courage to take real action. what if that one step further fails? also, as i said before: distance, distance...

以下是引用layala在2004-11-15 19:30:17的发言：
不太明白美眉在说什么？初恋啊？你得钓着他，怎么能让他钓你胃口呢？

以下是引用germo在2004-11-15 20:18:04的发言：

刚吃完饭，碗也洗好了，　ＧＧ上课去了，我现在在灌水．明天要交的作业也做完了，已经ＳＵＢＭＩＴ了，　期末考试还早，　先不去想，　老板这两天休假，　上班时间还可以放羊

以下是引用bearhouse在2004-11-15 20:25:15的发言：
if both of you are still single and available, why not go one step ahead? I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more. There is trade-off. The question is which one you value more, a long-lasting friendship or a possible love with this guy.
Ask your own heart.