I met my ex ten years ago. He was a very handsome guy, 6', an athelete and top student in my college.  Somehow we broke up and I felt very hurt. I chose to move on and met my husband, he is good looking, smart, talented but not that handsome. Later on I met another guy who is very similar to my ex, handsome, 6'2, nice and sweet. He said he likes me very much and I am so attractive to him. I know what attraction is but I can hold myself after long time struggling.

I think you should move on to find the one who truely loves you and you love. Years later you will find physical attraction is not whole part of your life. If you want to have fun, that is another story.