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bearhouse
what does he really want?
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2004-11-15 20:25:00
if both of you are still single and available, why not go one step ahead? I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more. There is trade-off. The question is which one you value more, a long-lasting friendship or a possible love with this guy.
Ask your own heart.
Ask your own heart.
这种暧昧的朋友,你即使现在不进一步,也是不能持久的。当你有了你的他,你和这个他的这种关系还是会改变的。
如果你自己都不知道的话,是没有其他人能帮你作决定的。
如果是我的话,我会问自己有没有足够爱的力气去追求并维持这场long-distance的感情,有没有足够的精力去面对这个难以琢磨的人(会太辛苦吗?)。我会问自己如果被伤害的话,是否可以在以后的日子依旧相信爱,相信幸福。如果有一个答案是否定的话,那我会选择放弃更进一步的可能。是真正的放弃,从心里彻底的放弃。
如果你自己都不知道的话,是没有其他人能帮你作决定的。
如果是我的话,我会问自己有没有足够爱的力气去追求并维持这场long-distance的感情,有没有足够的精力去面对这个难以琢磨的人(会太辛苦吗?)。我会问自己如果被伤害的话,是否可以在以后的日子依旧相信爱,相信幸福。如果有一个答案是否定的话,那我会选择放弃更进一步的可能。是真正的放弃,从心里彻底的放弃。
以下是引用bluesimon在2004-11-15 20:51:23的发言:
"I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ this is exactly what i'm afraid of.
" Ask your own heart."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~i really don't know. otherwiese i wouldn't have come here and told you my story.
"I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ this is exactly what i'm afraid of.
" Ask your own heart."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~i really don't know. otherwiese i wouldn't have come here and told you my story.
以下是引用bearhouse在2004-11-15 20:25:15的发言:
if both of you are still single and available, why not go one step ahead? I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more. There is trade-off. The question is which one you value more, a long-lasting friendship or a possible love with this guy.
Ask your own heart.
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