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Huaren
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what does he really want?

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2004-11-15 20:25:00

if both of you are still single and available, why not go one step ahead? I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more. There is trade-off. The question is which one you value more, a long-lasting friendship or a possible love with this guy.
Ask your own heart.
Huaren
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2004-11-15 22:29:00

这种暧昧的朋友,你即使现在不进一步,也是不能持久的。当你有了你的他,你和这个他的这种关系还是会改变的。

如果你自己都不知道的话,是没有其他人能帮你作决定的。

如果是我的话,我会问自己有没有足够爱的力气去追求并维持这场long-distance的感情,有没有足够的精力去面对这个难以琢磨的人(会太辛苦吗?)。我会问自己如果被伤害的话,是否可以在以后的日子依旧相信爱,相信幸福。如果有一个答案是否定的话,那我会选择放弃更进一步的可能。是真正的放弃,从心里彻底的放弃。


以下是引用bluesimon在2004-11-15 20:51:23的发言:
"I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ this is exactly what i'm afraid of.
" Ask your own heart."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~i really don't know. otherwiese i wouldn't have come here and told you my story.

以下是引用bearhouse在2004-11-15 20:25:15的发言:
if both of you are still single and available, why not go one step ahead? I am guessing because you two are afraid that it won't work out and you two cannot be this close friends any more. There is trade-off. The question is which one you value more, a long-lasting friendship or a possible love with this guy.
Ask your own heart.



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