以下是引用cleveryy在2004-7-9 19:05:46的发言：
in fact, i like him a little bit now

but when i first meet him, i told him that my dad and brother don't want me to find an american boyfriend :)
i also told him i really don't care to be an american citizen :

but now i felt i began to like him, so....

i am so shy that i will not ask him.

以下是引用lihuang325在2004-7-9 19:00:21的发言：
原来你只是想确定他是否喜欢你，其实，从他的行为来看，你在他心里的位置肯定很special，但是，这还不能说是爱，因为他并没有明确表达。
无论你喜不喜欢他，你都可以告诉他，把他看成你的chinese brother，象亲人一样，呵呵，多一个亲人谁不愿意啊！如果不喜欢，那就永远是brother，如果喜欢，嘿嘿，也很容易递进。