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Huaren
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厚脸皮上来挖坑,有多少MM不打算生孩子?

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2009-03-19 12:09:00

For people who don't think they can be a good parent, it is actually SELFLESS for them not to have kids, so there are less kids to be screwed...
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2009-03-19 12:19:00

以下是引用kittypeny在2009-3-19 12:16:00的发言:

我就是这样无私的哈哈


觉得自己基因不咋地, 不想孩子输在起跑线


觉得自己脾气很烂,不想将来虐待之


觉得老公是不会伺候人,不想娃跟我一起受罪


觉得自己EQ差没本事将养出个幸福快乐的娃,不想娃这辈子跟我自己这辈子一样内心充满挣扎


觉得自己是一个很喜欢push别人的人,有娃了肯定说,你老娘都能怎么怎么的,你居然敢不向我看齐?


 


如此种种,not gonna be a happy healthy family


We prefer a happy woman, instead of a miserable mom/child pair in this world, seriously... Bravo your choice.

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2009-03-19 13:02:00

以下是引用kittycy在2009-3-19 12:57:00的发言:

 


我就是这样无私的哈哈


觉得自己基因不咋地, 不想孩子输在起跑线   Maybe you'll find your excellent genes from your kids 


觉得自己脾气很烂,不想将来虐待之   Maybe you'll change your temper when you have kids


觉得老公是不会伺候人,不想娃跟我一起受罪   Maybe your hubby change more than you


觉得自己EQ差没本事将养出个幸福快乐的娃,不想娃这辈子跟我自己这辈子一样内心充满挣扎  It's just your assumption


觉得自己是一个很喜欢push别人的人,有娃了肯定说,你老娘都能怎么怎么的,你居然敢不向我看齐?  if they are much more excellent than you expect


 


如此种种,not gonna be a happy healthy family


That is way too many maybes.... It is too risky. I agree with kittypeny MM 100% in the way that one has to be sure s/heslf is happy first, then think about having kids or not... If I had to put my lifelong happiness on "maybes", I would not choose to conceive. It is like gambling. I would rather to control my own fate, than expect someone else to change, or something else to happen.

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2009-03-19 16:54:00

以下是引用kuzi在2009-3-19 16:42:00的发言:

这个等你老了就totally不一样了

I personally had quite experience working with senior people range between 60-90 years in age. They do feel differently with or without children being around them.

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