I think the Chinese society is facing both the moral and legislation crisis in many aspects. Marraige is among one of them. Things will get much better if our law can protect the people especially women who have be betrayed in their marriages. Unfortunately, the whole legal system has not been not completed while the moral system is decaying  so fast....
 The old generation recognize faith, dignity, sacrifice, they will keep desire deep in their hearts if they think it is not appropriate. But for a lot of young people in China, they are too spoiled and very materialized.