以下是引用Captaintoo在2006-11-30 20:14:00的发言：

问题在于这个红的知己，在受到什么重大打击的时候不停的找别人老公倾诉就比较糟糕，我是说cross the line这个事就搞不好会出现在这个时候

she can call as many times as she wants, but it's up to your hb how long he wants to talk her or even picks up her call or not.  do you understand what i mean? 

and you two should have the understanding what are the bottom lines, so both of you know where the line is.

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then don't worry too much.  relax and enjoy your life.

以下是引用qq06在2006-11-30 21:18:00的发言：

这个也不能说明什么吧？

我们十几年的同学聚会，男女生挥拳头、拉衣角的也没有过到一起去啊

只有他心里有你，不会做出什么的；要是做出什么，也是你拦不住的

享受自己的生活吧

strongly agree.

以下是引用火儿在2006-12-1 2:16:00的发言：
我认为把你自己变成gg的红颜知己是最好的办法。。。

i agree.  this is the smartest solution to this kind of concern.