我觉得帮忙穿脱外面的棉背心还行啊。。不然孩子不能自己脱怎么办？

这个老师是不是有其他行为让你觉得不妥？

不过说到底还是要相信你作为妈妈的直觉

跟女儿说要么就是开始教育男女有别，boys and girls are different, you need to ask for permission before hugging someone, and other people need to ask for your permission too. Also, other people cannot touch your private area. If someone touched your private area, or asked to touch your private area, you need to let mommy and daddy know.

我觉得这些教会就可以了，倒不必严格说异性就一定不能拥抱。我娃还不到四岁，她爸已经教她不可以touch别人的屁股等private area，被人也不可以touch她的。我昨天不小心碰了一下她的屁股，被她严肃说了：baba said you can't touch other people's butt! 小朋友学得很快的。