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关于选择性缄默-孩子在学校不说话
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2018-06-08 12:36:41
我娃在学校里几乎不主动说话,但老师问他问题他又会回答,这个算selective mutism吗?医生说他肯定不是autism,语言本身也发展得很好,但除了跟爸妈,跟别人不怎么主动开口。
一般会回答问题,有时候会躲起来。感觉要看对方是什么样的大人,他跟有些大人第一次见面就叽里呱啦很能说,有些他就很不待见。早上上学时,有时同班同学跟他打招呼,他低头不回话。老师给的反馈是,过去的一整年,他在班里几乎不吭声,但别人问他问题,他一般会给个很简短的回答。他天天跟我说不喜欢上学,问可否不去上学,但又说不出为啥不喜欢上学,哎,我有时都想homeschool了。
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happy_village 发表于 6/8/2018 9:24:00 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=2219139&postid=77791860#77791860][/url]
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happy_village 发表于 6/8/2018 9:24:00 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=2219139&postid=77791860#77791860][/url]
谢谢推荐!我赶紧去看看。
医生说可以试试group based speech therapy,我们这个暑假准备带他去参加。
我的儿子3岁2个月,从去年九月份开始去daycare,但是听老师说,他几乎在幼儿园不说话。期间我们回国了一个月,回国亲戚朋友多,很多人聚到一起,他也是不说话的。老师也有和我说要不要带他去看看医生检查下,我带去了,他和医生交流的没有问题,用中文,所以医生并不觉得他有任何问题。所以我现在也有点迷茫,我自己的感觉是他不适应英文环境,他会紧张,如果是中文,他会舒服很多。我几乎没有听到过他说英文。以上种种,个人感觉他比较像是选择性缄默症。想和有经验的妈妈交流一下,不知道是否可以一起组个微信群,方便交流。如果有意愿的妈妈,麻烦短信给我吧,谢谢!
phoenix0922 发表于 3/8/2019 1:10:48 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=2219139&postid=79934692#79934692][/url]
phoenix0922 发表于 3/8/2019 1:10:48 PM [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=2219139&postid=79934692#79934692][/url]
你看的什么医生啊,跟他说话没问题,并不能直接下结论孩子不需要帮助。能看selective mutism的医生真的不多,我这里整个州能治疗的似乎就一个,别州的都来她这里,wait list有好几个月。
我就用万能的google,对SM比较有研究的医生一般会自己专门指出来,有的医生(不一定是doctor,我找的这个是therapist)还会有文章/新闻专门报导介绍他们。另外,SMcenter网站上也有列出每个州他们认可的医生/therapist,可以从那里开始看。
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