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求助:老师说孩子偷东西求助帖
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2024-10-23 23:15:53
这么大点的小孩,一颗糖, 偷你p。 要是我肯定直接就要见校长破口大骂了, 是不是歧视中国人的小孩
还有为什么给其他小孩糖没给你家小孩, 是不是看不上你家小孩?
这种老师真的是极不负责,居然还有guts给家长发信。这件事如果是我会严肃的要求老师retract her accusation,另一方面我会教育自己的孩子never apologize for anything that you didn't do,虽然对孩子来说不容易,但是要学会stand up for yourself,哪怕是retention也不怕,mom has your back。
For your reference:
Adding Mr/Mrs. xx (principal's name) for awareness and complete transparency.
Dear Mrs. XX (teacher's name),
Hope you are well!
Thank you for bringing this incident into my attention. I've had a conversation with XX (kid's name) and now I have a clear understanding of what happened earlier today.
First of all, he thought this was a finders keepers situation and I already made sure he understands that anything and everything he finds in the classroom need to go back to the teacher and should never leave the classroom. However, with that said, "stealing" is an accusation that I can not take lightly to which I strongly disagree in such incident; It's extremely unfair and irresponsible to make such accusation against a 9 year-old without thorough investigation of the incident.
Second, he apologized not because he admitted that he took the candy on purpose, but because he was intimidated into apologizing. I also had the conversation with him about never apologizing for something he didn't do, especially when pressured by a grownup or person of authority.
This may be a small incident, the lasting impact on a 9 year-old can be tremendously detrimental. To make things right, I suggest that you retract the accusation of "stealing" and issue an apology. If there is anything further that you'd like to clarify, I would be more than happy to meet and discuss in person at your convenience.
Best regards,
XX
bellamia 发表于 2024-10-24 08:46
这个老师这么爱演 那就给他加点戏, 他们可不要接不住戏哦, 我会失望的。我会跟校长说
I need to understand why a teacher at your school, without any proper investigation, assumed my child was a thief. He has never exhibited behavior or had any previous incidents that would suggest he would steal, especially not a piece of candy. Why did she assume a child in her class committed this act, and more importantly, why was my Chinese child singled out? Does she harbor any bias against Asians or Chinese individuals? If she is not racist, as I hope, this still does not make the situation any better—it implies she assumes all children are thieves, which makes her unfit to be a teacher. However, if she is racist, this is unacceptable, and we will request a full investigation into whether she has committed a hate crime against a minor. For your information, harassment is a crime outlined in most state penal codes, and accusing someone of theft without proper cause is a form of harassment.
My child was targeted, interrogated, bullied into apologizing, and even forced to admit to something he did not do. He was intimidated—this is completely unacceptable. We entrusted our child to your school because we believed in your professionalism, but instead, he was bullied, verbally abused, and shamed by the very adult responsible for his care. This is deeply disappointing. We take this matter very seriously and demand a thorough investigation, along with a detailed report. All details must be documented for future reference. Your teacher’s false accusation has caused severe mental distress to my child and our family. The damage has already been done, and I need to know how you plan to address this and make it right.
To be clear, accusing someone of stealing is a serious attack on their character, especially when it involves a 9-year-old child. As a parent, I cannot and will not let this slide. If this matter is not resolved, I will not hesitate to escalate it to a higher level.
我同意这个。以前我们孩子班上有个中国小孩, 不敢说话不敢做什么, 老师发现他的问题后,也没有帮助,干脆从来不叫他的名字让他回答问题,这样不会让他难受。
所以更要去问啊, 就直接问我的中国小孩为什么被你当成贼, 你是不是针对中国人和区别对待我们的孩子
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