littleflyingpig
大家是不是考虑捐款呢，看这个母亲真可怜
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2006-12-15 03:16:00
every U have health service...mental health.. it is including in the service also... why did not go to consulter and talked about it..
it is sad for these chinese.. don't know how to protect themselves...or think it is shameful???
这个mm太mean了吧,我想她的意思就是说"这种(类型的)中国人"
i maybe a little bit mean.. but ...
they got the high educated, have more knowledge about how to protect themselve..
but there always happened like suicide , kill the school mate.. etc ..on these chinese.... i really mean THESE chinese.....
they took some many high level classes, got the Dr. Phd, degree.
but they even don't know about the basic psychology, (most U have this class).
if they really don't know how to protect themselve on their own,
they also can go to consulter, they can talk with their friends..
they can go to yoga....
the husband of course has the responsiblity....
there are many ways to PROTECT themselve for avoiding any problems...
before it happens, you should know it maybe happens..
during it happens, you should know the way to solve it, or comfort yourself...
After it happened, it is ur own responsibility...
我再猜猜，也有可能是意外怀孕。我几个月前还纳闷呢，怎么那么多的人都说是意外怀孕啊，这意外怎么这么容易啊。
我有个好朋友就是超级容易怀孕，吃着避孕药都怀了好几次了，弄得我有阵子都觉得她吃的是假药。
she did not take it on time , or missed 2 time in one period ...
cause pill works over 98%...
base on prob.. it should be on her fault.. missed...
说到中国人的教育，想起来美国人的教育，倒是真是protect自己
我刚才刚yy完自己领过操没有，就接到俩TA学生的电话，让我给他们送formula sheet。他们都是属于要separate在学生帮助中心参加考试的，因为so called心理问题，比如不能有压力啥的。我今天才知道谁在那儿考试，这俩人平时生龙活虎的，经常很happy的来我得office hour一点儿不像有问题的。（不过其中一个男僧我很讨厌，每次作业都晚交，还有一大堆理由，总是搬出prof，因为prof耐司，他的无理晚交要求都能达到）。真的没想到是这俩人。 每个学期TA的时候，都会有几个学生不参加集体考试单独考试的，美国人说实话真是保护到乐教育到了极致。
但是我唐乐半天要说的是，学校里还是一如既往的有人自杀。
that is true...
espeically for the undergrad.. like me..
that is why there are RA(for the dorm), learning center(class for time or stress mangerment), health service.. student service....
cause people will have depressure... will feel unhappy.. will feel sad.or anixous.
beacause broke up with bf/gf, homesick(even live in the same state), feel behind of the class,
她一次也没有miss啊，流产不是好玩的，都流了好几次了，她对那个什么都恐惧了，哪可能miss啊。所以我曾经怀疑过她吃的是假药。我那个好朋友在国内。这种吃着避孕药还怀孕的，国内的朋友我都听了两起了。不过她们都是在大药店买的药。不知道怎么回事。
oh.. i throught she was in US...
abortion seriously is bad for every woman..
don't know about that...
but i want to say because there is suicide.. so that is why there are so many such service...
can not reduct to zero suicide.. but at least.. when you/ur fs meet those kind problems... you know where to go...
go or not of course is ur own choice lar.
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